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I am a Man

Who happens to be Dominant

I am seeking

A Human Being

Who is a Woman

Who happens to be Submissive

I am not really good at these things. I am really about bad about rambling on or getting of tract,  I ask for your understanding in advance. I am writing this in a word processor program, so hopefully it will be grammatically correct.

I am looking for a woman who I can spend the rest of my life with. I am hoping that she is submissive and is looking for a more gentler kind man. I don’t want one who desires to be told she has no value. That is simply not me.

I realize that I can write anything here, but that whatever I do say, I will have to prove at some point. Things like honesty integrity, high morals, and the big one, trust. I talk the talk, I am quite confident I can walk the walk. I realize that people say “have to earn trust” How does bantering back and forth on a web site create this trust? I am of the belief that the only way to truly know, is to put that truth to a test; otherwise it is only an unproven theory. I am of the thought that I give trust until it is shown to be undeserved. Is it a perfect, no, I have been burned a few times, but then, better to find out sooner than later. Does this mean you run off, meet in the middle of nowhere, absolutely not. I do expect people to use common sense.

I realize that there is a great many people here whose intention is never to meet for whatever reason. That fine, should I run into someone that is of that mindset, please tell me.  For those who desire to make a connection, grabbing a cup of coffee, lunch, dinner whatever is decided, should be done in a reasonable amount of time. One of three things is going to happen. One, there is no spark and you part ways, two, the spark maybe only bright enough to ensure a friendship and that is not a bad thing, or three, you do meet someone that really trips your trigger. The point I am trying to say is that I am not getting any younger and simply do not have the luxury of long drawn out waltzes. I think if all goes well, that within a few weeks it is not an unreasonable expectation to have some sort of face to face in a public place of course.

I learned along time ago that if my partner is not happy, I know I am not going to be happy. I am not one of these people who prescribe to the theory of” It is all about me”, that may read well in one of John Norman books, but it is not reality. I have never read the Dominant’s hand book, and don’t plan to start now. I have my own way of doing things in a relationship. One of them is you have to really listen to you partner and hear what they are saying. I need my partner to know that she can always come to me without any fear of retaliation. I have a problem with seeing the lines, much less trying to read between them. I don’t always pick up on hints and I have never gotten my crystal ball to work I really try to be attuned, but with life as it is sometimes, just asking for a little help.

I do not wish my partner ever to think that I desire a maid. If she were a stay at home person then I would expect a well run home, but the reality of life is that in most cases especially now, it takes two incomes just to survive. I have no problem with helping around the house as needed. I will not be offended if I am asked to pick something up at the store or heaven forbid, take out the trash. The way I see it, that the less my partner has to spend doing such things, the more time she has for me.

I do make the decisions for us, of course I place a high value on my partners input, especially if it is in her area of expertise. I am the captain of my ship, but I know I need a good first mate.

I am a bit of a romantic and I love tender moments, I enjoy giving massages, combing my partners hair, watching sunsets, cuddling on the couch tickling and snuggling these activities are not ones, I as a dominant, feel I must abstain from.

I am looking for someone of reasonable intelligence. I do not desire a door mat or someone I must micro manage.

I purposely did not list my bdsm preferences as I feel it is not something that someone seeing this profile for the first time wishes or cares about seeing. If you wish to email me about them feel free to do so. I am open to many things, but I do have hard limits.

I am a real flesh and blood person

I am not a scammer and will not attempt to pick your pocket

I am not anything other than what my words say I am

I am not married and have not been in almost 20 years

I am not interested on anything that involves poly anything

I am not interested in changing your sexual persuasion

I will not train you, you are not a dog.

I will not put you in a situation that will harm you physically, emotionally or legally

I will not attempt to isolate you from friends and family

I will not disrespect you by referring to you as “subbie”

I will not disrespect you by referring to you as a three holed anything

I do not place your value by the number of strokes you can withstand

I do not place your value by the amount of sexual prowess you may have

I do not place your value by your age, size or outer beauty

I do not expect a photo until you are ready

I do not expect you to web cam

I do not expect to chat until you are ready

I do not expect you to rush to meet me after two emails

I do not expect to meet you in a motel room

I do not expect to collar you on a first meet

I do expect you to have some limits

I do expect you to play with safe words

If the pain in my eyes or the look of disappointment in my voice

does not bring forth tears of remorse from you,