I have been a Dominant for about 2 years and have come to several conclusions. Trust is the most important factor in developing a D/s relationship, after trust is communication. Once these two are achieved then you can develop a loving relationship.
What does all this mean for the type of Dominant I am? Well, I can tell you I am fair, honest, caring, and kind. I demand respect but I give it back. I promise to always listen and try to understand where a submissive or slave is coming from first before I make a demand or decision. I am more of a pleasure oriented Dominant but I do enjoy a plentiful measure of pain. I will provide a safe, sane, and caring environment for learning and hopefully love.
I also believe strongly in aftercare for those that scene with Me and that aftercare goes both ways.
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