"I am not a professional, but a passionate edgeplaying amateur, who delights in the deep intimacy and..."

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 AlexandraLynch

 Dominant Female

 Anderson 

 Indiana

 5'7"

 250 lbs

 40

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 03/24/08

I am not a professional, but a passionate edgeplaying amateur, who delights in the deep intimacy and love that I find in a submissive's suffering and surrender.  I like a sub to be someone I can talk to as well as beat, someone who will take me out to dinner as well as wash the dishes when I cook at home. I love to laugh and to talk and to learn. I decorate in book, and am teaching myself Spanish for no other reason than that I want to learn. I am also writing a novel.

My hair is down to my hips, my feet are sensitive, and I adore corsets.  And I like men who are rough in bed; I am, and I want to get that back.

So here's what you need to know before you write:

• Be either single or in an open relationship. Open relationship means that I can  speak to your spouse about boundaries and limits. You may like going home with a welt on your ass, but I won't do it if it will freak out your wife, and I'd like to discuss it before I put the first welt on your ass. 




•  tolerant of liberal politics and non-mainstream religious practices. You are not required to believe as I do, but you need to be able to be around this without difficulty. 




• without allergies to cats and dogs. I own both, the hair is on my clothes, enough said.


•  A working knowledge of polyamory is a plus, as is bisexuality. No, I am not leaving my husband for you. No, this is not cheating. Yes, we can all three go to dinner and enjoy ourselves as friends.


•  Must be free to attend area events with me. This currently means being free on Friday nights, when I play at a local dungeon.


• Must be a masochist who enjoys reasonably heavy impact play. I don't do much bondage, and while a service sub is okay, I'd really prefer someone who can wash my dishes naked with bruises on his ass from last night's play. That's really pretty.


• I also do electrical play and knife play. I am respectful of hard limits, but if you haven't tried it, please give it a shot.  You never know, it might work for you.


• Please be willing to share interests and time outside the dungeon and open to becoming friends. I'd like to spend some time online hanging out and in person just hanging out, perhaps with a little D/s running but nothing hugely overt. I'm not here to find pay pigs or to do financial domination, but if buying me corsets or shoes makes you happy, I am happy too, and will wear them with glee. I look profoundly amazing in a corset.

• I'm really not into crossdressing, except for the purposes of laughing at a great big manly man in silly panties. I just can't seriously tell him he looks pretty. Sorry, fellas. If you're genderqueer or transgender, that's fine, just tell me the pronoun you want and we'll go on.

There are many things, including strapon play, that I don't do with just anyone, but in a committed d/s relationship, I'd be into. So it's not that I'm not into extreme kinks, I just don't do them randomly. I can play at your level, whether it is low pain or high, quite happily. Invest the time, and you'll get what we both want.