"I am learning where my place should be.  I am NOT looking for the King of all Domly Dom types.  That..."

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 AllLockedUp

 Female Switch

 Queens 

 New York

 5'8"

 250 lbs

 41

 Bisexual

 African American

 03/08/10

I am learning where my place should be.  I am NOT looking for the King of all Domly Dom types.  That isn't for me.  Nor am I looking for that passive D-type. 

Sadist 24/7?  HELL NO!!!  Can't be ON all the time.  Let's be realistic, we do have lives outside of this realm. 

I NOW know I am in need of/looking for that One that can balance the vanilla world and the BDSM world. 

Am I ABLE to honor the wishes of my One 24/7?  Again, no.  I DO have a life that reaches outside this part of my life.   Can I be RESPECTFUL of my One 24/7?  That, is a yes.

To expect more than I can give is a recipie for disaster.  Know this.  Understand this.  Believe this.