About me:
· Successful entrepreneur/businessman, living in San Francisco (proper).
· Never married, no kids, and undecided on whether I want kids or not.
· D/s (power exchange) is the part of BDSM that attracts me the most, but I am interested in other aspects as well.
· What I ultimately seek is a long-term D/s or M/s relationship. Until I find the right girl, I’m dating around.
· Being self-employed, my schedule is very flexible, allowing me to travel internationally frequently. I would love to meet someone with a reasonably flexible schedule who shares my passion for leisure travel.
· I’m a pretty smart guy, and intelligence, integrity and character are very important values to me.
· Although I’m a “business guy” at heart, I am socially liberal, and am very interested in/involved with issues like global warming and the erosion of civil liberties in the U.S.
· Non-smoker, completely disease-free, and happy to show you a recent blood test evidencing this to be the case.
· Work out several times a week, in good shape, photos are current and accurate, etc.
About you:
· You have a photo in your profile, or you e-mail me one with your first communication.
· You either don’t smoke tobacco at all, or are willing to completely refrain from smoking when you are with me.
· You care about yourself, and take care of your body. You don’t have to be a Barbie-doll model type, but no couch potatoes please.
· You either already have a recent blood test for HIV/STDs, or are willing to obtain one if a sexual relationship starts to develop between us.
· You are not cheating on anyone, deceiving anyone, or otherwise being sleazy. Open/poly relationships are fine, but I’m not interested in helping anyone deceive their spouse or partner.
I regard the whole online dating thing as a useful way to meet people with a common interest (BDSM). However, for me, cybersex, protracted e-mail relationships, etc. are not interesting. My account is set up to automatically deny all chat requests, and I don't do IM either. The protocol I generally follow is to exchange a couple of e-mails and perhaps a phone call to establish that mutual interest exists, then meet in person as soon as we both feel comfortable. I generally prefer first meetings over coffee, to see whether there is enough commonality of interest to warrant a proper dinner date.
I am primarily interested in meeting someone here in the Bay Area. I’d consider relocating someone, but it would have to be a really good match.
Please write me with your questions! I actually had a lot more to say than I did, but I’m trying to keep the profile simple and straightforward. Again, I don't do online chat or IM, so if you want to communicate, please e-mail me. Also, I often leave an open collarme window on my PC (it's good marketing), so if I don't reply right away it's probably because I'm not really logged in, even if it says I am. If you write me and I don't reply, it's most likely because you didn't respect my request (clearly stated above) that you either have a photo in your profile or include one with your first e-mail.
Scott
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