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An important note: I currently have a submissive girl that is also my girlfriend. After conversations with her, it comes down to this: I am able and willing to do hypnosis play with someone who wants to learn more about it, and this hypnosis play can be sexual, erotic, and D/s in nature. Aside from hypnosis play, I will likely not play with anyone else. As should be obvious by that statement, I am not taking on any other submissives, but still feel free to look through the profile with this in mind, as I am fine with making friends, and feel free to ask anything you want with my personal favorite fetish/kink: hypnosis play. I love bringing new people into this fun kink, and reminding experienced people as to why it can be so enjoyable. That said, let the original profile commence...
I sometimes ramble, more importantly I can be very wordy, but in that rambling, you can get very useful information. Just keep that in mind when talking with me, or reading past this point.
Curious About Erotic Hypnosis?
I do love to talk about hypnosis, so if you're curious about something upon looking through my profile, feel free to ask. I also put up a writing with the basic questions a lot of people tend to ask me first if you're shy, but questions, comments, and ideas are welcome.
My Personality
From the getgo, I'll start off saying this: speak freely with me, I have no problem with it regardless of "D/s orientation" and such. Also, I am fine with someone being shy, but remember: there's a difference between shyness making it hard to say much and just sending a one-liner.
I will not assume dominance over someone I just met. By the same token, I'm not big into someone talking as though I have dominance over them before I've even met them ("sir" for respect is cool, "Master" is a bit over the top, eh?).
I have a sense of humor and like to use it. Have a sense of humor, be human. I will laugh at myself at times, but I will not be walked over. I've come across this a lot, so I really have to say this: If you feel like a dom shouldn't be willing to laugh at themselves from time to time, we won't get along. And yes, the same goes for laughing at yourself, if you can't do it once in a blue moon, move along, I don't need a drama queen.
Honesty means a lot to me. I highly respect it in regular, everyday contexts. As far as a submissive of mine is considered, honesty is expected. Regardless of there being an expectation of it from a sub, honesty is quite appreciated all the same, it's not something I intend to take for granted from someone.
I use hypnosis regularly in play, or even as play, because it is a passion of mine, and something I've come to truly enjoy. I enjoy hypnosis for simple, non-erotic entertainment, as well as for very erotic fun. I'll obviously enjoy the erotic any day with an attractive woman. At this stage, I feel hypnosis needs to be involved in a sexual relationship for me, while a D/s dynamic is something I'd enjoy to be in a sexual relationship (over vanilla). I'd obviously prefer both hypnosis and D/s dynamic, and will be quite comfortable having that dynamic in hypnosis sessions if you're interested in such.
No drama queens or excessive attention whores.
Yes, I'm aware that the majority of submissives thrive from attention, thus why I used the word "excessive."
Ahem...
If you plan on messaging me, put the phrase "trust in me" at the top of your message, otherwise I'll just treat you as though you haven't read a word of this profile. I've been at enough sites that people randomly spam on. This includes people that are replying to a message from me for the very first time.
What I Am Not
I won't be whipping a sub for saying hello in the wrong tone of voice or yelling at a sub for saying the words "I,' "me," or "myself." If you want this kind of treatment, move along. And personally, I like a sub feeling comfortable using first person pronouns, makes conversation a LOT less convoluted.
I am not a pain sadist, and not a masochist at all. I enjoy teasing and the like, but pain, not really my thing. Spanking is likely the most intentional pain one will receive from me. Love teasing the hell out of a woman, though, both conversational teasing and physical teasing.
Non-D/s Info
Now for something a little more than, "I'm Dom, I want sub, this is what I want, this is what I don't want."
I'm a geek in general. I'm more indoorsy, love videogames, anime, and witty drama shows (NCIS, House, etc.). I am not a hypnotist as a job, but merely as a hobby and self-taught through books and a LOT of research all over, though I have considered looking into classes and certifications and the like. My job actually has little to nothing to do with psychology, go figure.
I'm a bit of an introvert. One-on-one, I'm quite talkative and can appear social. In large groups, I may be a bit quiet, so if you meet me in a large group, well, yea.
Musts to Be My Hypnosis Subject
I'll talk to anyone about hypnosis, but please realize that because of the erotic nature of this site, I have requirements for someone I will personally hypnotize from here, which happen to be some of the requirements as anyone who would like to be my sub (discussed a little bit further down:
- a woman (naturally physically woman, my apologies if this offends those not physically born female)
- No "Let's prove he can't" type tests. Skepticism is cool, an open mind is a happy mind.
- Be interested to some degree in being hypnotized
- Be willing to talk on mic or phone or use webcam. We can talk for a lil while first on IM, but I won't do hypnosis sessions in IMs. I don't trust the low level of feedback through text alone.
Musts to Be My Submissive:
- [Same requirements as for a hypnosis subject]
- Close enough to my home location to feel comfortable eventually driving over at least half the distance. If you're not sure what "close enough" is , and we'll talk plenty before we meet and can talk about it. It should be obvious that if you live across the country, you're definitely a bit too far away.
- Be younger than 35. I sexually prefer someone closer to my age. Exceptions can be made, so if you're a little over 35 but still very interesting and fun, then you can try anyway, can't hurt.
- Have a decent amount of self esteem. You should want to be submissive, as opposed to feeling like it's the only way to "get what you deserve" or some crap like that. I will not have someone's self esteem be completely dependent on my sticking around. I've been there, it's a miserable experience for me.
- Honesty, period. (This means two things: (1) "You have no reason to lie to me, so don't." (2) "I can't read minds, talk to me.")
I do not change my mind on my requirements (or they wouldn't be requirements :P). I do have preferences that bend, of course, but that's another story. Obviously, my age range will change as my own age changes, and I kinda built in a slight "exception policy" in that requirement, but that's another story lol.
I will play with switches, and will consider one as my own submissive, no problem, but switches have to get their dominant tendencies out elsewhere. I'm fine with a sub of mine having her own sub(s). And I personally do not feel like "my sub's subs are my subs," that's just a personal belief, of course.
General Limits for Hypno-Play
I don't do private hypnosis sessions by text alone. You can still feel free to chat with me about it, and I will do little trance scripts by e-mail for those that I would be interested in having as a sub, as well as write a journal entry every now and again, but live sessions only happen by voice or in person.
For personal reasons, I also don't do feminization/transformation, sorry for those who hoped for such.
I will not use hypnosis for therapeutic reasons. Regarding hypnosis, I will not intentionally help you to stop smoking, lose weight, help get over a loss or a breakup, or try to take care of a mental illness. Helping sleep a single night, relax, or just feel overall happier and refreshed is cool, though.
Disclaimer
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