| I'm looking for local, single men who are interested in a monogamous or "monogamous with room for play" relationship. I currently have a female switch playpartner, who reacts submissively toward me, but we are not in a formal D/s relationship. She is open to cotopping or being co-topped by someone who I am dating or in a relationship with, but she and her husband would need to meet and ok the individual person. If I find someone who wants no outside play, I am open to that possibility, but would prefer to continue playing with her.
I enjoy dancing, martial arts, gymnastics, and otherwise being active. I have eclectic tastes in music - everything from Beethoven to Nine Inch Nails, and most other artists on the spectrum between. I'm generally not into watching TV much, though going to movies as a date, or movie/BBQ nights at a friend's place, are a lot of fun. I will read almost anything that is reasonably well written, and a few things that aren't, but particularly enjoy the Sci Fi/Fantasy genre.
I have been in relationships for 5 years as a Domme, 3 years as a submissive, and 1 year as a slave, as well as some egalitarian kinky relationships. The dynamic with an individual person depends on how I react to and interact with them. Some people make me want to yield to them, do things to please them and make their life easier, and collapse to my knees when they pull my hair. Others bring out my predatory side, and I enjoy hurting them in incrdibly yummy ways, seeing the vulnerable way they look up at me, their meeting my every whim. Occasionally, with another switch, we've taken turns thwacking and getting thwacked for hours until we were too exhausted to move, and just cuddled up and slept in each others' arms. I don't have a lot of "must have" kinks or "hard limits,' most things are negotiable and a matter of degree to some extent. |
