"~WARNING: I am a geek. I am unashamedly a geek. I will not stop being a geek. I buy comics, I hang o..."

~WARNING: I am a geek. I am unashamedly a geek. I will not stop being a geek. I buy comics, I hang out at the local gamer haunts, I RP. Those frightened by the terms D&D, Ren Fair, historical reenacting, and Spider-Man should follow the nice Orcs to another profile~

All right, with that out of the way... I'm some interesting combination of BDSM labels that is, basically, complicated and best explained one-on-one. Submissive is probably the best way of summing it up that the max. number of people will understand the basic of it. I've been on this site for several years, learning and making friends. Now I'm looking for a female partner.
 
I'm poly and in a long-term relationship with my male owner, Valyraen. We are in the midst of getting married and are both looking forward to welcoming a new woman into our lives.

It's hard to define exactly the dynamic that we are looking for with another woman. The best way of explaining it is that we are looking for the right fit for us, which is, of course, still hopelessly vague.

The best way of trying to explain it is we are leaning towards either a V with me as the central point or a triad. If it turns out to be a V, we are not thinking that sex will include all three of us but rather me and her, privately, unless all three of us decide to change the arrangements.

Physically I love petite women, something about being able to wrap my arms around her waist. Long hair is a major plus. I love girlie girls (I am a cross between a girlie girl and a tomboy). I'm also really into body mods and tattoos. I used to have several ear piercings but had to give them up to do historical reenacting. As of yet no tattoos but getting into piercings that don't show under historical garb.

I like finding out other people's viewpoints on the various different lifestyles within our lifestyle. Just please don't expect me to do things your way.

Like I said, I'm very much a geek girl (talk nerdy to me). I enjoy Star Wars, RP (non-sexual) and getting into really silly debates. I was played SWG but that died out. Now my posion is LOTRO. WoW is ok, but I've never really gotten into it. I do some tabletop, but it's not really my thing. I'd larp but I have a stutter. Most people don't even notice it but I'm very self-concious about it.

Hmmm... what else to say? I'm really into costumes, though my sewing skills are pitiful -anyone who can teach me gets bonus points!

Also, I am religious - Jewish specifically. I do my best to greet the Sabbath every Friday. I'm not interested in being converted to any other faith or practice - including non-faith. Respect me, I'll respect you.

I've also gotten to the point where I know what I like for the most part and what I want for myself as a submissive and it's great. I'm looking to talk to people, meet people and share advice on things, be it from playtime to relationships.





And my personal rant about BDSM:
It doesn't matter how many contracts you sign, you aren't legally owned and if your dom/master/daddy is being abusive (ie: doing things you didn't consent to and things you said not to do) then you can leave. You don't have to leave, but no matter what they can't actually throw you in jail.