~WARNING: I am a geek. I am unashamedly a geek. I will not stop being a geek. I buy comics, I hang out at the local gamer haunts, I RP. Those frightened by the terms D&D, Ren Fair, historical reenacting, and Spider-Man should follow the nice Orcs to another profile~
We have a couple's profile: ValyraenandAqua for those who are interested in learning about us.
All right, with that out of the way... I'm some interesting combination of BDSM labels that is, basically, complicated and best explained one-on-one. Submissive is probably the best way of summing it up that the max. number of people will understand the basic of it. As for my personality and spending time with me... I think interesting is the best way to describe me. I'm bubbly, bouncy, nervous, sweet, anxious, thrill-seeking and yet terrified at the same time. My usual joke is that a day spent with me will never be boring. It might not be *fun* but it's never boring! ;-)
I'm poly and in a long-term relationship with my male owner, Valyraen. We are looking for people who fit with us well. We'd love a woman for the both of us. I'm open to "V"s but Valyraen is much less interested so any woman interested in him has to accept that it will be less of a V and more of a triad. BTW - and my apologies to those who are awesome and read profiles - any messages I get that ask if I have an owner or mention that I'm involved with someone will be disregarded as a shotgun attempt that I'm not interested in.
It's hard to define exactly the dynamic that we are looking for with another woman. The best way of explaining it is that we are looking for the right fit for us, which is, of course, still hopelessly vague. The best way of trying to explain it is we are leaning towards either a V with me as the central point or a triad. If it turns out to be a V, we are not thinking that sex will include all three of us but rather me and her, privately, unless all three of us decide to change the arrangements.
In terms of poly, it's not required or even prefered that a prospect be unattached. Poly families are wonderful. However, it is required that they be open and honest and their partner is accepting and supportive. Basically... we want to be able to meet them and have a good relationship with them. If it's a situation where the other partner would want to be involved, obviously the emotional and sexual chemistry needs to click for everyone involved.
Physically I love petite women, something about being able to wrap my arms around her waist. Long hair is a major plus. I love girlie girls (I am a cross between a girlie girl and a tomboy).
For me and men... I love men that are larger than me and in reasonable shape. Big and burly is always sexy but I also love thin and wiry. As for men and the poly situation, it would be more of a V with me as the central point. He and Valyraen must respect each other and get along since they would both be men who dominate me. I'm not interested in anyone who can't be friendly with him. We realize that some poly dominant men aren't interested in that - that's fine. I'm looking for the ones who are. :-)
I'd love a male partner who is into cosplaying and who will go to cons with me. Ren fairs and the like would also be awesome - I have a kink for costuming (athough not really having sex in the costumes) and someone who enjoys that too would be awesome. I do struggle with my weight - it gets low and then I gain it back so I need partners who aren't going to ditch me when my weight goes up or down. It's a problem I'm working on but it's a fact of life for now.
I don't see poly relationships in terms of primary or secondary. I'm just not capable of caring less about a partner because they came into my life after Val. Because of that, I'm not looking to be anyone's second. For us and ours, it's not a matter of rank but of who needs who when. It's a balence. :-)
I do know that I need someone who wants contact. I can explain it more once we've talked but a daily contact - even just five minutes on the phone - is vital for me.
We are primarily interested in people relatively our own age. This is not a hard and fast rule but we are looking in the 22-35 age range. Also, while we understand not wanting to have a picture up on the profile, we are not going to consider persuing a relationship until we have an idea of what you look like and if there is a mutual attraction. That doesn't mean anyone needs to be a supermodel but we do have our tastes. We realize we aren't everyone's cup of tea and not everyone is ours. :-)
As for me, I'm really into body mods and tattoos. I used to have several ear piercings but had to give them up to do historical reenacting. I do have one tattoo so anyone who hates tattoos should probably move on now. I love my tat and hope to get more in the future. :-)
I like finding out other people's viewpoints on the various distyles within our lifestyle. Just please don't expect me to do things your way.
Also, I am religious - Jewish specifically. I do my best to greet the Sabbath every Friday. I'm not interested in being converted to any other faith or practice - including non-faith. Respect me, I'll respect you.
