| 04/11/11
Yay! More Updating!
Are you looking at my profile because I looked at yours? I'm cool with that. Did I look at yours and not send you a message or something? Probably, yeah... That doesn't mean I'm not interested though. In fact, if I did look at your profile, I probably am interested, at least to some degree, and am now curious as to what kind of move you'll make and personality you have.
If you do send me mail here, and haven't read through my profile here, I will know. Loosely translated, anything that comes in that is essentially just "Hi.", will be deleted and receive no reply whatsoever. Seriously, put SOMETHING of interest in there. Even just common niceties.
I have a husband, we've been together for 16 years now. Yes, that's right, I'm in a poly relationship. We're not in an open relationship though.
What am I looking for then? Well... I would love to be able to sum that all up in a couple words, it would make things so much easier, wouldn't it? But that's not going to happen, so let's start with some simple things. Human is a definite plus. Male, yeah, that would be good. Trans/CD is fine too. In fact, more than fine, it's preferred. Someone younger than me please also. Good personality, sense of humour, respectful...
You know what? Just send me a note or something, and we can go from there, yeah?
Yes, over on the side it says "Crossdressing" under the "Lives For" section. NO! I don't mean ME! Nobody wants to see that! I would look like an old, pregnant, Russian woman. Not pleasant!
I mean for those lovelies who might be interested in being the spoiled one I take in and care for as my pet. I really wish CM would add something about that somehow.
Soooo... What is there to know about me? Well, a lot of it is already outlined on the side. Go take a look. I'm quite happy to answer any questions you may have.
I'm mostly here for conversation and to meet awesome people, which I've done. So many wonderful people on CM. Don't be afraid to drop me a c-mail. Worst that will happen is I'll ignore it, no big loss really, I'm not that earth-shatteringly interesting or important.
If you do contact me, please don't start off with just saying that you want to be my slave/pet/etc. I don't even know you and you don't know me yet. That's just silly and sounds terribly desperate. That's like going up to someone in the store and saying "Hi, will you marry me?". You wouldn't do that, and would probably get escorted out by security if you did. Let's get to know eachother first, as friends, and then go from there. You know... like real life. :)
I tend to be a rather 'fatherly' figure. I don't mind at all when people get in touch with me to chat, if they have questions, want some guidance, or just want to talk for a while.
On that note, if I don't get back to your c-mail for a week or so, I may not be ignoring you. I tend to become kind of busy, randomly now, as I've left my position as Executive Catering Chef at the college, and am now a Personal Chef For Hire. That, on top of taking care of the normal (and at times abnormal) household things. I will always try to get back to people as soon as I can.
I am not a bad person, I think. I am fair, reasonable, have a decent amount of logical thinking skills. I'm educated and, although I can be a bit grumpy at times (blame stress and lack of sleep mostly), I tend to be rather friendly, and at times, even more than a tad on the goofy side. Loosely translated, I'm bat-shit bonkers.
I do have a website. It's constantly under construction, mostly because I don't have the time or energy to really hunker down and fight with it most days. It's noted in my Journal, but I'll put it here too, just because...www.BiggKattStudios.com
On that site I have an online radio station. Tune in and listen, your ears will probably like that! :)
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