Who I am:
Mid 30's woman living in the greater NYC area. I am educated and gainfully employed in a somewhat respected profession. I consider myself vibrant yet low key; smart but also silly; hard working but so not a workaholic; and yes, a cat person.
What I want:
I hope to meet someone who pairs well with me. Sharing my interests is a good start. Brains and politeness are essential as well. I like men who are submissive but also smart, self-confident, and strong (wow! That's a lot of "S"'s).
Hopefully you also are grounded enough to realize that real dominant women do not resemble dominatrices from porn, and a BDSM relationship cannot occur instantly.
Fun fact about me: I am a music-o-phile, and I truly do listen to just about everything.
As much as I prefer to hear from folks that are within driving distance, I have an open mind. Who knows? The guy of my dreams might be on the other side of the country, or even the ocean.
Be on notice that I do not get involved with men who are married or have children. Props to the married guys that are up front about it in their profiles (i.e. they include the word "married," preferably in the first sentence). If you for some reason have omitted that fact from your profile, and you want to write me a message just to chat or whatnot, please indicate right away that you have a spouse.
Another fun fact about me: although I work out regularly, I am a big fan of being a couch potato when I can. I enjoy television, books, and movies that don't suck (such as a lot of what is on TCM). I do fantasize about being able to vegg out with my feet propped up on a human footstool, if you know what I mean.
Yet another fun fact about me: I used to be a Battlefield 2 addict.
If you write me a message and I don't respond, it is because I am not interested. As any woman on this site can tell you, even a simple message saying something like "sorry, not interested" often triggers a vitriolic backlash. Those guys ruin it for everybody else, so accept my apologies now for the lack of a reply.
Thank you for reading, and have a great day. Lastly, check this out. It's the most genius BDSM video I've ever seen: