Notice my journal says I have surgery and will be unable to play for the next four to six mont

Notice my journal says I have surgery and will be unable to play for the next four to six months. Feel free to send communication. I may be able to be on the computer. Also, I may be seeking a pain slut as well as the domestic. I do not do light pain play.. aka, if you don't get off on pain, don't even think about it! The same person does not need to fill both positions.

Seeking a non-sexual domestic service sub. I don't care if you're a cross dresser or just someone who enjoys service. You must be local. Aka Orange County/LA area. Take the time to fully read what I seek or you will lose your chance & be blocked with your very first letter. Also, you're welcome to ask me for the address of my play time photo albums- located on a free site.

Oh yeah, and if you're a drama queen, prone to emotional instability or are passive aggressive don't waste either of our time. I do not cater to subs.

To be more exact about what I seek, I prefer a male but will not turn away a female. Duties will include, but not be limited to: laundry, sweeping & mopping, cleaning bathroom, doing dishes, cleaning kitchen, gathering trash & taking it out. And MOST important, will help sort out the hell of moving into a smaller place. This sub will work beside my husband (NO BISEXUAL CONTACT) to organize and find homes for the electrical/computer parts on the kitchen table, the books living on the floor, tables and furniture & such. I prefer self starters who do not have to be monitored every moment.

What I will not do is play with or touch your penis.

For the trial period you will clean wearing your choice of underwear from a long list of approved bodyaware underwear. These range in price from $10 to $40, which you will pay. (You wear it, you buy it!) Before you write to me, google bodyaware and use product search to view these five examples of what I mean: P109 z335 p147 c019 T903. You must tell me which one you like most BY NAME IN YOUR FIRST LETTER or I'll know you are not serious enough/detail oriented enough to serve me and I WILL BLOCK you. If this happens, you have no one to blame but yourself. I do not give second chances.

After the trial period, you will be naked or crossdressed while you clean. Either way you will (after the trial period) wear a collar while cleaning that I pick out and you provide. If you last more than a year in service, cuffs will be added to your "outfit."

I am an actual experienced real time 24/7 TPE Dominant Woman, not a bored housewife spicing up her life. When I am seeking a sub, which is rare, I seek service, not tributes or money. I understand and live daily, the power and dynamics inherent to D/s. I am a BBW, AKA a large woman. I love my size and enjoy the power it gives me to physically push a man around if he balks. If you do not wish to serve a large powerful woman, continue your search.

24/7 TPE (Total Power Exchange) means I am the head of my household. Think traditional 1950's home, only I'm the tyrannical husband who gets waited on hand and foot. My husband (Beachstoyboy on here) is my "wife" (non-cross dressing) and does all of the household chores, including shopping, window washing, cooking. car washing and laundry. He also takes care of all of my personal grooming needs such as giving me baths, painting my nails, shaving my legs, massages, dressing me, putting on my shoes and such. While home, he wears a leather play-style collar and always wears his permanent collar. (A neck chain with a custom clasp made to need a special tool for removal.) My main domestic sub, gina (Beachssissymaid on here) joined us in 2008.

I'm intelligent, creative, married and monogamous and a touch sadistic. I first started showing dominant sexual behavior 26 years ago, when I talked a boyfriend into cross dressing (although I prefer masculine subs) but only identified myself with being "Domme" in 2000. In 2005 I married my collared sub (Beachstoyboy or subgreg on here) and we are sexually monogamous. We are minorly active in our local Scene, attending both munches and dungeons. Anyone looking to find the Southern California Scene should google "SoCalSMEvents" and join the yahoo group with the listing of all local events.

A strong believer in SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) play, I do respect RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) if the people are truly aware of the risks involved. Physically, I'm 5'6", a BBPW(Big Beautiful Powerful Woman,) light brown long straight hair, hazel eyes and was born in late March- typical Aries. I revel in the physical manipulations I'm able to force upon my husband due to being a BBW! I have a maternal streak, as well as being sadistic, and love whispering sweet nothings in my husband's ear while I hurt him, or cuddling and soothing him after a long session. The maternal streak also means I feel very protective of my subs, and protective of subs in general.

My favorite forms of play:
-CBT
-Pain/Sadism/masochism - I'm a bit of a sadist and loooove the screams a sub makes when taking consensual pain for me.
-clothespins -I seem to have a slight fetish on that front..
-having my feet rubbed -NOT SUCKED.
-flogging/whipping/caning
-spanking/paddling
-anal/strap-on play
-tease and deny
-being pampered by my sub - including foot care, washing my hair, waiting on me, opening and holding doors, cooking, cleaning, laundry and such.
-photographing my sub at "play"

MY hard limits:
-children
-drugs/alcohol by either party in session - I want all of my and my sub's senses functioning normally. I don't want something masking a problem.
-gags - I have allergies, and am made uncomfortable by the thought of restricted breathing -bathroom functions - just flat out ewww.
-blood - small amounts like from a play piercing is ok, but in any larger quantity, it belongs INSIDE the body.
-anything that might cause a medical emergency- such as asphyxiaphilia or edge play. I have no desire to try explaining how something ended up where to a doctor or paramedic.
-illegal acts.

My secondary interests are foot worship (NO DROOLING ON MY FEET! Grounds for dismissal), hair worship (stroke my hair correctly, I'm a happy Woman), errands run, chores done, chastity, cross dressing, forced bi, sensation play, sensory deprivation and more. I also have a visual media fetish and enjoy photographing BDSM play and California landscapes Vanilla likes: reading, collecting signed first edition books, computers, ocean stuff, movies, chatting, theater, museums, good conversations, dining out, friends, aquariums, cats.

Favorite Authors:
Kelly Armstrong, Nevada Barr, Patricia Briggs, Jenna Black, Jan Burke, Jim Butcher, Karen Chance, Tim Cockey, Robert Crais, P. N. Elrod, Janet Evonovich, Diana Gabaldon, Roberta Gellis, Laurell K. Hamilton, Charlaine Harris, Kim Harrison, Sue Henry, Carl Hiaasen, Nina Kiriki Hoffman, Iris Johansen, Barbara Kingsolver, Charles Knief, Dean Koontz, Virginia Lanier, Martha C. Lawrence, T. Jefferson Parker, Anne Rampling, Chris Rogers, Bertrice Small, Mark Sumner, Carrie Vaughn, Rachel Vincent, Vernor Vinge, F. Paul Wilson

BDSM Books I own: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns, The Loving Dominant, The New Topping Book, The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners, The Art of Sensual Female Dominance, The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance, The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment, S&M: Studies in Dominance and Submission, Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual, Training With Miss Abernathy- workbook, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction, The Manipulated Mind: Brainwashing, Conditioning and Indoctrination, Knots & Splices, Introducing Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People and Words That Change Minds: Mastering the Language of Influence, Masochism: A Jungian View and Dominant Women Submissive Men: An Exploration in Erotic Dominance and Submission.

Favorite movies: Some Like It Hot, Harold & Maude, Avatar, Harvey, Dirty Dancing, Hunt for Red October, True Lies, North by Northwest, Matrix, Tomb Raider, To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar

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