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-updated 9/7/2008- Well I figured I needed to update my profile since I am now somewhat looking. Yes, my profile says switch, but I am mainly submissive so my partner would have to be mainly dominate.
I am willing to relocate, but will not be able to until the October of 2009 since I just renewed my work contract.
What am I looking for and what I am not looking for: I AM looking for : A naturally dominate man, whom is employed and is living on his own. The only exception is if he is in college.
Someone with similar ideas about the lifestyle and has similar fetishes. What I am NOT looking for: I am not looking for someone who is old enough to be my father. A good age range would be between 20-30yrs old. Although must be at least of legal age and not older then 35yrs old. I am not looking for someone to make me reliant on them completely. I have gone to college and like having the knowledge that I can take of myself. I do not mind if a man wishes the woman to be stay at home most of the time, but I would like to keep working at least part time just in case things to not work out.
I am not looking for a man who just wants someone to only cook and clean for him... if that is ALL you want... get a maid and cook! What I believe the lifestyle is all about: I believe that a Dominate/Top/Master and submissive/bottom/slave are meant to help each other grow and satisfy each others natural desires.
A Dominate/Top/Master in my opinion should have a natural desire to control,lead and also care for someone else. He/She is not meant to abuse emotional or physically, although some parts of the lifestyle come very close to crossing this line the submissive should not come out with emotional or physically scars.
A submissive/bottom/slave in my opinion has a natural desire to serve, and give up control even in small amounts to someone else. The submissive should be able to first and foremost be able to care for herself. If she is 100% dependent on her dominate then he has failed her and constitutes neglect. We are not guaranteed tomorrow, so make sure you care for yourself on your own. Fetishes which I like already and Fetishes I do not like:
Fetishes I like:
bondage (shabari, cuffs, chains and other forms) electric play (I have a weakness for a violet wand) breath control (yes I must trust you prior) fisting Oral(giving and receiving) Whips and floggers Breast play Biting and being bit Being my Master's lil slut
Not really sure if I would classify this as a fetish, but lol men in the military pulling my chain is a instant turn on!!!
etc. Fetishes I do not like: Scat( No feces or urine exchange)
Cross dressing watersports diapers (I outgrew them yrs ago babe!)
and I am sure a few that I can not think of currently
More of my lifestyle thoughts:
This lifestyle can yield many false promises to those who are not aware of themselves and that the world is far from perfect. You should never give over yourself or belongings until you know the other person's intent. You should never place yourself in a situation which in the end you are 100% helpless, and you should never put a person in a place where they are 100% helpless. Always have a back up plan! Although I am probably one of the few on here that do not believe in safe words, I also do not believe in putting myself in anyone's hands where I do not feel 100% safe and know all the risks. If you chain me up, someone knows where to find me. I am far from helpless, I just choose to give over the rains to someone I know has my best interest and well being at heart! If I give you that control... You have proven yourself to me with more then words. My Likes outside the lifestyle:
Reading(I love paranormal romance stories) Outdoors Traveling
Internet My blackberry(her name is Sassy) lol
If I have not either pissed you off, or scared you off after reading all of this....... I hope you message me. I am always looking for friends in the lifestyle and the age requirement then does not apply.
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