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 BlackPolyDom

 Dominant Male

 Maryland

 5'7"

 191 lbs

 37

 African American

 06/20/06

I’d like to think I’m pretty easy to figure out and understand.  Generally, I prefer to make most things known and as unambiguous as possible sooner rather than later.  I’ll tell anyone that I will give you my total investment as a Dom & Master, so long as you give me total honesty, total loyalty and total obedience.  Most everything else is has a workaround.  These things do not.  However, as I’ve said before, my sense of what is acceptable (and not) is very clear, so my room for flexibility is small.

If our first contact is polite and cordial, that is because I have manners.  If you mistake this for indecision and weakness then you obviously didn’t read the warning label before you opened the package.  Courtesy is dictated among strangers in a civilized society.  I am very comfortable with my ability to be sadistically cruel and without emotion while doing it.

BlackPolyDom on….

...On Location.

Yes, at the moment I’m living outside the States.  However, I’m moving back home to stay at the end of the year.  I’ve LOVED being abroad and plan to return many times before I take the proverbial dirt nap.

…On Third person references

With all due respect to the resurgence of popularity experienced by our little friend, the demonstrative pronoun known as “this”…c’mon!!!!

Few things drive me to being possessed by the overwhelming urge to burlap sack and bathtub dunk another as if [prepare for demonstrative pronoun use] they were the unwanted offspring of an unneutered alley cat, quite like the phrase “this girl”.  For those of perplexed by this visceral reaction, I’d invite you to read my short discourse on wearing this set of Capri pants with these cowboy boots.  Don’t forget to bring your nose clips!

…On Poly

While I never saw my approach and viewpoints (within the context of the lifestyle) as atypical, they are it would seem, a bit of a departure from what some see as how poly works.

The first thing I’d say to that is there are as many ways to be poly as there are people who have it as part of their lives.  The same holds true for the larger BDSM community, in my opinion.  With respect to my own views, I have a very strict and very narrow view of the conditions under which I would make this a part of my life again.  Enough so, that if it were not under those conditions, I would be more content without living a poly lifestyle.

If you are really that interested, please write to me and I’ll be glad to tell you why I’d pursue this type of lifestyle again as my reasons are atypical as well.  But just so we are talking about the same thing, poly under my roof is defined as only the following:  A 1+1+1 triad (as an example) which is FMF in composition.  NOT 2 + “her” or us + “that skank he found…I hate her”, but a union of three.  This is an all or nothing proposition where everyone is a part of the relationship, or no one is.  The women in my life would have a relationship with one another separate and apart from the one I have with either or both.  A relationship on some levels even stronger than the one they have with me, but definitely independent from me.  This is the mindset of “we three”.  Do they need to be bisexual or enjoy being with women?  No.  For all I would care they could both the straight.  I care far more about their ability to be part of a “family” then I ever would about them being sexual partners in any form.  I care most about is that *IF* I have two women in my life, each is friend, confidant, partner in crime, sister and if they are so inclined, lover to the other.

There may be other ways to live it, but this is the only way for me, and the only way I will do it again.  On this point, there is no debate or negotiation.