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I’m a switch…sometimes a Domme…rarely a submissive (actually, bottom would be a better word)…definitely not a slave. I express my “switchy-ness” in various ways depending on the partner I choose to express them with. This switch-ability is expressed not just in D/s but also in my daily life and personal interactions with others.
Experience isn't as important for me as Connection and Chemistry are. I don't NEED a sub...instead, I would like to have a man who enhances my life in some way. This goes beyond play or a scene, which explains my desire for the 2 C's.
I appreciate a man that can be generous with his time and spirit. I do find that a man who is able and willing to give of his time and make me a priority (I know, we all have jobs and outside commitments) and who will keep phone/email/meeting times holds my attention longer than anything sexual.
Location is important. I prefer local or within a 100-150 mile radius. While I love the west coast and hope to get back someday soon, that day isn't today! I'm an east coast gal for now.
I do have photos(very vanilla) to share and will after we’ve exchanged a few emails.
Please don’t bother to ask for my IM information or ask me to chat here, the feature doesn’t work and I don’t care for cybering. Do take the time to read my profile and journal , especially the entry from 11/02/08, as this will make it easier to understand how I prefer to be approached, what interests me and could give you something to mention in your introductory email.
Oh, speaking of profiles…have one! Before I write to someone, I look over their profile/journal …just as I’ve suggested when approaching me…and if there’s nothing to read, it gives me the impression there’s nothing to you!
I don’t have any size/weight issues. If you do then I would suggest you move along. I dress for comfort, not fetish. I don't smoke and prefer not to be around those that do, in regards to a LTR. I enjoy a good round of conversation...preferably about more than just kink. Intelligent conversation can be almost as stimulating as sex…which for me begins between the ears.
Life is meant to be enjoyed and explored fully and completely...That's my plan, anyway, what's yours?
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