I've been here and a few other sites for over the past few years. I have made a great few friends and have met some outstanding individuals and a few couples here and there. Unfortunately - I also had the distaste to have come in contact with some buffoons and outright LOSERS.... BUT - I am being much more proactive... rather than focus on bullshit I will treat it like the fertilizer it is and use it to cultivate NEW and fruitful relationships!!!
I am a pragmatic and reserved Gentleman that takes pride in doing what I say and will say what I will do. I love to please and BE PLEASED in a host of ways and believe that I am in charge of MY enviornment. I ALSO believe that if you can't control yourself or your surroundngs then you have NO right to take on a submissive/slave. After all - if I can't control Myself how can you expect Me to take charge of YOU???????
I try to learn something new daily and if i can't i take pride in the fact that My ability to LISTEN (not just hear) is superior to others and THAT's what sets me apart from the masses. And the fact that I treat people with respect until they don't deserve it any longer!!!
I am a fairly open book with the eed for knwoledge - asking the RIGHT questions while gettin to know somebody is paramount in bulding a relationship of ANY kind - I don't care what. Too many instances, including My divorce, there have been breakdowns due to no other reason than a lack of due diligence on one or both parties... I tend to look in the mirror before afixing blame - after all - it IS the RIGHT thing to do!!!
Lastly - NO I don't have to pooch anymore - he's with a firefighter family that I'm dear to and has a better home there with another spunky dog like himself. I miss him yes - but My shoes don't mind having to avoid lawn type land mines!!!
