| If you know that power exchange is more important than sex, read on.....
Lots of submissives here are understandably reluctant to make real-world contact.
O.K., I understand that. Here's your chance to begin to follow orders in a completely safe way. You'll be expected to complete some simple submissive tasks and then document their completion. Tasks may be, but are not limited to, placing you in embarrassing, humiliating or awkward situations. But, you will NOT be directed to do anything illegal.
No physical meeting, no sex, just following orders.
Since first posting this profile, I have gotten a lot more response than I ever imagined. So, although I know many in the CM community look down upon cyber-relationships, clearly I've hit a nerve here with a bunch of people. Still, my experience with some guys who have responded to this profile leaves me shaking my head. Let me try to explain a little better some of my philosophy of all this:
I *think* that part of the reason people feel submissive is that (a) they want to be challenged to push their limits, and yet at the same time (b) know that they are safe in doing so. This profile is my (perhaps feeble) attempt to give folks a chance to enter into those two things.
BUT, since this *is* an anonymous, cyber relationship, the only way we have to communicate is through the written word.
I have begun to realize that many guys who consider themselves subs or slaves have a hard time putting words together. It's been said that the average American is "experience rich but language poor", that is, we have a lot to share with one another, but we don't do a good job of communication among ourselves.
So, if this profile appeals to you, it's absolutely critical that you understand that you have to begin to stretch yourself (mentally/emotionally, not physically!!) to write words in such a way that when they are strung together they make sense.
I understand that if you're not used to doing that, it will take some time. It will take some effort. There is a learning curve to expressing things in the written word. I can be very patient, as long as you are willing to spend the time and effort to try.
From my experience on CM, I understand why the first contact by many people is only one or two lines -- many folks just won't respond. And, if your *first* message to me is that short, that's o.k.! But please also know that if we continue, I'll expect you to write words onto the screen. Picking up the skill of expressing yourself a little better isn't a bad thing to do!!
So, if you're still interested, please feel free to write. Here are some idea/pluses:
1. You may address me as "Sir".
2. You will begin to describe yourself and your experience (or lack thereof) in the community.
3. Please write in full sentences.
4. Please give me some indication of why you are seeking a cyber relationship, and what you are (ideally) looking for.
5. I don’t mind older or younger subs, but if our age difference is more than ten years, please give me some idea that you have noticed that and that you don’t mind, either.
THANK YOU FOR READING THIS FAR!! Have a great day, and I hope to hear from you soon!!
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