I always loved parts of movies where the girls get kidnapped, bound, etc. Like when Wendy was captured and tormented by the deliciously cruel Captain Hook. I always adored and yearned for the charismatic, witty, powerful leading man who seduced and controlled the woman in his life. Put him in a suit, and I melt.
With the knowledge that this phrase has become quite the little cliché, I think that I truly was born a submissive. I am rather assertive and strong-willed with family and friends, but for the right man, walls crumble and sweet surrender follows.
I generally enjoy the forced, rough kind of play most. Overpowering, holding me down, obvious displays of strength or strategy. I have my SAM moments if I'm ravenous for that kind of attention, but it is all in good fun and certainly not uncontrollable. And apparently, I'm a bit of a pain slut.
I'm pretty open minded and will try almost anything twice, but some hard limits include: watersports, scat and blood play, fisting, rimming, children/animals, and permanent marks and/or disfigurements that affect everyday life (like shaving my head).
When I'm not tied up, I love painting, music, a good book, movie, or conversation, hanging out with friends, learning new things, and finding adventure. Please note that I am also a full-time student and cannot relocate until I finish my studies. I hang out in the forums sometimes, though I read much more than I end up posting. Wanna know more about a person? Read their posts.
So...
Intelligence, Confidence, Stability, Respect, Sense of Humor, Honesty, Authority, Strength, Power, Insatiability, Passion for Life, Love, Adventure, Fun, and Sex...any of those hit home?
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"I had to submit and he gave me no choice. But even if I had had the choice, I would have preferred it this way; it is better to be punished than not to be punished, because not to get punished means being treated with indifference. There are no spectacular sunsets without a clouded sky." ~ from Gordon byEdith Templeton
