PLEASE LISTEN TO THE WHOLE MESSAGE AS SOME OF THE MENU OPTIONS HAVE CHANGED :}
6'3" 260# Masc husky big Daddy bear, 50 yo, 58" chest 19.5" neck big thighs, brown/grey hair/green eyes,beard, light hair
Discreet, d/d free, safe/sane, NS
I like spanking, whipping, bondage and role playing.
The No's: no poppers, no PNP, no blood, no needles, and the usual hard limits.
I am typical that I like visually pleasing things like my sub/slave lying on the bed, spread open from my command, waiting patiently for my next command. I like my sub/slave to dress seductively for me, from dressing up for a dinner out, to play clothes in the house, to lingerie and leather in the bedroom.
I like to make the decisions in the bedroom, so that the sub/slave can relax and know that I am in control of the situation. I want my sub/slave to be able to count on me to handle problems properly and swiftly.
I like the feel of spanking a nice tight ass, looking at the redness, massaging her between sessions.
I love to receive oral, penetrate my sub/slave's pussy, mouth, and ass with my cock and tongue.
I like building trust and having an emotional bond between me and my sub/slave. I think that is the most satisfying of all benefits from a D/s relationship.
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Someone else wrote this but I think it speaks for its self:
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From my heart..
You are a dominant man. You are just that. You are not dominant because of any superiority on your part. Not because you think you are more intelligent, or wiser than me. You are not dominant because of the strength or mass of your body. You are not, nor would you want to be dominant with all women. Yet to me, you are Master.
You are my Master only after earning my trust and will embrace my submissiveness. You have looked into my heart and mind and clearly see my desires and passions. I have thrown away my fears and inhibitions. I tell me of the needs of my heart and body. I have given you total access to my soul, and you accept the responsibility and honor.
I am a woman. I am not weak or inferior because of it. I am a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal. You have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for me. I am a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart. My belief in you gives you courage and direction. My strength disperses your doubt. My needs and desires encourage and give purpose to your efforts.
We are not equal. We are halves of a whole. We compliment each other and make each other complete. You desire to dominate me is instinctive. It is not to degrade me nor is it degrading to me because I am secure in being totally feminine. We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.
I am sure, strong and proud in my womanhood. I do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. I expect a man to stand strong and be a man. I desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return I present control of my body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of my heart.
I submit because you have earned my trust. Because you have opened my heart and soul to me. Because you have listened to my words with your ears and heart and have learned to anticipate my needs and emotions. And because you have proven worthy in my eyes, I have given you the only true treasure of life; I have given you dominance over me.
What I give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman could give a man. I have given you complete and unshakable assurance of my commitment to you. My submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. You accept this from me with humility and joy. You understand the rarity and purity of this gift. You recognize it is my body and soul, my heart and mind. You dominate me only because I have allowed it.
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