You are as safe as you want to be, but absolutely no safer :-) We are a switch couple. My partner, Electric Fairy (see profile pics), is about 75% sub, whilst I am 90% dom. We are more SM than roleplay orientated. We would be interested in hearing from young ladies (well, you don't have to be a lady, dirty little sluts are very welcome!) who might be interested in joining us in play.
I have been getting more engrossed in Shibari (Japanese bondage) in the past 8 years. Recently, I have visited Japan twice to study with two acknowledged grandmasters, Arisue Go and Osada Steve. Recently, I have also achieved a good level of competence with single tail whips. Electric Fairy is relatively new to SM but has made up for that with an insatiable enthusiasm and a filthy mind ;-) She is also the most sunny person you will ever meet. You can be assured that I am a genuine player, which can be proven by my website (www.esinem.com), and that I have total respect for the gift of submission.
We have our own small, but well-equiped dungeon, plus numerous bondage suspension points.
The gaps to fill in? Make most of my living from my flooring company and bondage related activities, e.g. tuition; own too many motorcycles; growing old disgracefully; able to read & write, cook & dress myself unaided (usually); do bondage shows, also extreme cabaret/freakshow. Likes: Japan, Hunter S Thompson, Michael Moore, Peter Greenaway, Henry Root, Simpsons, League of Gentlemen, Thai food (actually, anything with chilli), diving, travelling, setting the world to rights, grandiloquent words, Spalding Gray-type 'Perfect Moments'.
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