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ABOUT ME
I am looking for what we all search for: fun, inner happiness, and a peaceful existence. Maintaining that in this life has been a journey. At a very young age, my journey took me through four different Eastern philosophies, a couple of transformations, and also many hours of meditation. All these events help to create who I am today. During my life, I also found that I enjoyed and craved various forms of kink, but never really understanding who I was as a whole. Then I met a lovely, intelligent, young lady online a few years ago who was a submissive, God rest her soul. She helped me realize my true path. Having been in a marriage for thirty years, I never focused on myself and was never happy with me (or in the relationship). I have finally realized where I am going and that it’s my time.
I know there are gaps in this story, but I want something left to keep someone interested (grins).
I enjoy photography (did it for several years professionally and as a hobby), martial arts (20 years combined in 4 different styles), cooking, and reading.
I am what some call, a Gentle Dom. After being raised by only my mother and grandmother, and then raising my three Girls, I feel I have a good understanding about life, a woman’s needs, and relationships in general (Vanilla and Kink). I also consider myself a good listener and a patient man. I have a strong sense of what I want in my life and I expect things to be done a certain way. I am patient and believe in reward as a behaviour modifer. I will show appreciation when a submissive is in tune with her Master and does things before being told.
I am not one to inflict pain as a corrective measure. I feel if one of the consenting adults wishes for that, then it is made to be part of play or as a reward. I believe sex should be a constant thing in the life of a couple. There is give and take of course, but for me, I want to know my sub is with me because she wants, needs, and desires to be, not because she is scared to leave. And I truly believe what we give to each other is the truest form of Yin/Yang.
If there is more you wish to know about me, feel free to ask. |
