I'm dodecahedron in a square shaped world.
Who am I:
I could rattle off a bunch of words that can describe me, but that would apply labels to me based on your definition of those words with your preconceived notions and not necessarily my intended meaning..... Despite this failing of human communication systems I'll throw out some words that are labeling anyway... and these are in no particular order of importance.
Intensely loving.
Trusting.
Honest.
Spiritual, I'm something of a pagan, and yet not a pagan... I have a unique belief structure that is not found in any single book... Yes, that makes me eclectic.
Empathic.
Intellectual, as if you had not noticed....
A natural Healer. Got a headache? 98% of the time I can get rid of it, and that's just the tip of the iceberg in this dimension of things.
Polyamorous.
A HUman, deliberate extra capitalization.
A pleaser.
Morbidly humored.
Cuddle bunny.
Appreciating a dark aesthetic.
Predominately happy.
Optimist and yet a realist too.
Natural teacher. If I fully grok a thing, I can teach it... to anyone. To twist a turn of phrase, to know a thing is to teach a thing.
Switchy.... I enjoy mild forms of pain. I enjoy being subbish to someone, but I am a very much a natural dominant too. I'm frequently the leader of the pack and the decision maker. *gigglehowlz*
A dirty dirty old woman in a young man's body and quite content with this, spank you very much. :)
Reformed computer geek.... or is that reformated? *giggles* Yush, I've been saved from myself... By embracing my feminine nature, I've learned to not be such a stick in the mud and completely anal about everything. Us geeks have such massive sticks way up our asses on the propriety of things... sometimes, no sense of humor... *waggles eyebrows* Never fear, I've got a horrid sense of humor though.
I was a Licensed Massage Therapist in the State of Texas and am into discovering what makes the world tick and the universe turn.
Ummm, Texan, breed, born and raised... Recently made the jump to Arizona... And the jump back.
Addicted to Second Life. More like have been. My SL addiction has waned, but the relationships I've formed in there are some of the best. Friends and lovers of mine from there poke at me via Yahoo Messenger all day long. And it's that emotional bond with others that I turned to SL to fullfil. Now I'm seeking something more deeply gratifying and longer sustaining..... emotional bonds and trust with another human being to share a meal with, cuddle on a couch and watch TV, nature hike or just about anything else.
Who I'm looking for:
Right now I'm not particularly looking for anything. I've met my other half and am very happy with things, but I won't turn other possibilities if they should arise... *chuckles* I am polyamorous after all.
That said, the below is what I had been looking for and I feel that it'll still give you a feel for who I am...... Though it speaks very little, if at all, of my submissive side.
An emotionally mature intelligent woman with a wicked sense of humor that appreciates the darker things in life, that enjoys being loved and appreciated. That knows that she is an equal, but that it is by choice that she relinquishes her control over herself to me. A woman that wants to cuddle first and foremost and then go to the bedroom second as an option.
I seek a woman that can be perceived as "the girl next door" at times and at others a brightly shining star that matches my radiant glory.
A woman that is patient enough to know that any relationship we build will be built slowly over time starting off as equals and slowly the subsuming of one to the other begins as love and trust grow.
A woman that is not easily incensed with jealousy. I'm polyamorous. And while I may never have more than this one woman as my lover and my submissive in the real world, I have many lovers online that I share my heart with. *chuckles* Sharing one's heart with others and emoting with them is easily done on the net so long as you don't expect to ever meet them.
I'm very switchy, but seek a submissive woman that can be understanding of my switchy nature to share a polyamorous life of delightful partnership with... and if that means she's switchy too, all the better. Hehe, I'll admit to being a romantic. <3
To me a proper BDSM relationship is not about the S and M aspect of things, but instead it's about love and trust.... A love and trust that runs deeper than most vanilla people could ever know. A trust deep enough to allow one to be hurt and a love that keeps the other from inflicting too much.
If you're profile doesn't give me an idea of your personality, your email had better, else I'm not going to respond to you. I put myself out here and give you ample chance to know what I'm like to a certain degree before getting to know me more directly. You can provide the same courtesy in kind.
One last note. We're all adults here, so let's act like them please.... *smirkles* and be interesting while you're at it... I certainly know I am.
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