| On the Travelling Riverside Blues Tour
I am a luscious, intelligent lady with a wicked streak, a passionate love of life, and a demented sense of humor. I am usually optimistic, sometimes bratty or too much of a control freak (but amenable to correction and to taming through trust), delightfully submissive (yet strong), barking mad (but not batshit crazy), and ridiculously over-educated (but not snobbish about formal education).
I love to cook, to read, and to socialize. I lie about my age with a religious fervor, and I don't do "cute" – but I have a foofy, romantic side that only a few get to see.
Caution: I am an avid boardgamer, word nerd, and movie / theater geek!
I am not looking to submit casually or to just anyone, but I have a lot to offer to a good, sane, stable, intelligent, passionate, romantic, articulate, responsible, available, compatible dominant man (with a sense of humor) who wants a real relationship that would include - but not be limited to - DS. Someone who would enjoy disciplining me and guiding me (both to teach me to better please him and to help me to be the best person I can) – but as an individual with her own learning style rather than as a dog or a generic "sub/slave"). Someone who could foster and take pride in my individual accomplishments, as I would love to be able to do for him.
I could do almost anything to please and serve such a man. I have love and laughter to share. I would devote my intelligence, imagination, affection, skills, beauty, and loyalty to try to make his already good life even better.
If we are going to get to know each other, please have a real life of your own -- with friends, hobbies, and interests (that you already actively enjoy on a regular basis). I also hope that you will please be willing and able to write to me about such matters, if we start exchanging messages. I don't want to feel like I am cross-examining you - it feels (and quickly sounds) disrespectful and unpleasant. So, I will not write back if you tell me almost nothing relevant about your vanilla life in your profile or your initial messages to me.
The Rest of the Disclaimers...
I do not get bored easily, but (to me) chat/IMs with strangers are boring, time-consuming, and repetitive time-wasters -- and least enjoyable way to get to know people that I have ever experienced.
If we are local and have exchanged enough information to know that we have enough (nonsexual / nonDS) in common to want to get to know each other, please be prepared to meet (publicly) for coffee/soft drink - and then to get to know each other, gradually, in real life.
I am not open to play or sex (not live/not phone/not cyber) outside of a relationship. Please do not expect me to call you on the phone/IM/chat with you/tell you everything about myself/send you an album's worth of photos/etc. I do not use CM's Friends feature and reject all requests (it has nothing to do with you).
Oh... I am not your submissive. I try to be polite, but I am not subservient to strangers, and my presence on this site does NOT signify my consent to finding you a living space, job, more compatible submissive, etc. [You really wouldn't believe some of what I have heard].
If you have read this far you deserve a medal! [Thank you!] You are probably also a human being rather than a spammer/phisher, so I can feel safe in letting you know that I am now blocking all senders who include email addresses or IM names in their first message to me.
I appreciate your patience and promise you that I am far easier to know in real life - with someone who is available, potentially compatible, and not just here phishing or playing wank/fantasy games. Not that there's anything wrong with wanking, but... not with strangers, please. |
