~~ To Start With ~~
Just a couple things I will not do: 1. I do not go Cam to Cam. 2. I do not do chats. 3. If you live overseas, i.e. not in Australia, don't bother asking or expecting me to pay for you to relocate here. 4. If you live in Australia but not in Queensland, I will not foot the costs of relocation as I expect you to be financially independent.
5. I will not automatically add you to my YM.
What I Will Do:
1. If we click sufficiently on any basis including just as potential friends and we create a history of communicating via C-Mail (Here), I will be happy to give you my Y.M. I.D. and will happily add you to mine.
2. If you contact me and ask me to add you to my Y.M. on the first contact, I will block and delete. The same applies to those from overseas who want me to add them to my Y.M. in the hope of relocation.
NOTE: There is roughly a 5 year waiting list for people wanting to relocate to Australia and even then they will need to satisfy tough immigration laws.
~ About Me Personally ~ I'm an easygoing gentle giant who is generally called Bear. I wont waste space here as to why but ask me and I'll happily tell you why. Irrespective of your status, I'm mostly very approachable.
I have a Machiavellian sense of humour with a tendency to laugh at myself. I hold honour above all else and tend to treat those close to me as not only friends but as family and as such am protective of my family/clan. I see discipline and duty as a mainstay of life and live along what I see as a Philosophy encasing a Code of Honour and Code of Conduct, in which Honour, Integrity, Trustworthiness, Honesty, Courage, Duty, Loyalty and Good Manners, all which I was brought up to hold dear and as a means of judging a Man are part of my core.
I was a Gorean Lifestyle Master for over 9 years. That I have laid aside the mantle of Gor and departed from the Gorean Lifestyles does not mean that I have walked away from this Philosophy. I believe in the natural order of things that man is born to lead and to accept the submission of those women who are driven to kneel at their feet as slaves. I do however; also accept that some women do not feel the urge or the need to act upon such an urge at this or any time in the immediate future. I accept these women for what they are and accord them the same respect that my own Wife is accorded by me.
I'm completely incorrigible, totally irrepressible and absolutely irreverent. I love to laugh at myself and so a few people take me as a lightweight fool. At all times behind the light heartedness, there stands a Victorian Gentleman, who will draw the line in the sand if pushed too far.
Those who have gotten to know me, know that the Ol' Grizzly is also caring and a born empath. I am happy to give the URL’s of my Home Page and the Forums in which I now spend time should I be asked and for those who have established or wish to establish alternative communications with me, I am on both Yahoo Messenger and Skype.
I also have a couple of disabilities (Type 2 Diabetes, Osteoarthritis in both knees with my left one being the worse and causing me to limit my walking and use a stick when I do walk and Erectile Dysfunction. A high level of pain is something I live with 24/7 with only limited relief with allowable medications) which I am happy to discuss if it is deemed applicable.
~ Bruin Manor ~
(A Victorian Period Home)
Location: Beenleigh, Queensland, Australia
Master of Bruin Cottage is Iron Bear
Mistress of Bruin Cottage is Lady Neets
Dogs of Bruin Cottage are:
Storm (A Male Malamute)
Aurah aka RaRa (A Female Malamute/Husky cross) Pinky (Female Rat) Sarah (Brown Rat)
The style of the home is based on the homes of the Victorian Era. Serenity and peacefulness are important to the ambience of the Home. Ultimately, the Home is centred about the Master and his wishes being done without fuss. Bruin Cottage is a Poly Home with a structured format and protocols befitting the Victorian Period. Both the Master and Mistress spent years in the Gorean Lifestyles and thus have a sense of strict discipline in the running of their home. The Victorian Etiquette is applied to a practical level. Staff members are expected not to intrude in the socializing of the gentry unless required.
Warning: If you have not read it already we are a animal friendly home and our Malamutes has the run of the home inside and out including chairs, lounge and our bed. Malamutes shed hair so be warned! If you are allergic to or dislike dogs we are probably not the best choice for you.
Staff Vacancies
We are going through some changes in our small cottage with ongoing refurbishments and other works making it somewhat untidy and the rightful appearance of an ongoing project. Added to this for those who don’t know these dogs, both Malamutes and Huskies malt several times a year whereby the “blow” fine hair ensuring that hair is everywhere all the time and especially on black clothing. (Rolls of masking tape are excellent when going out to remove hair). However they are both lovable, affectionate and boisterous “children” This is just part of what we are and how we live. (it has been said often by owners that you don’t just “get” a pet when you get a Malamute, you get a Lifestyle. They sing at all hours when ambulances and polices sirens are heard or the ice-cream van rings it’s bell or even when it is time for the evening walk with Lady Neets. They bounce on the bed and try to take it over at times. you could expect to find large brown eyes staring at you, cold wet noses are often poked into ears or where ever they can reach and huge wet sloppy kisses or even wake up with your eyeball being washed by a large tongue.
I will state that we are up front and open about our expectations so there is no hidden clauses, agendas or traps. I want you coming to me with your eyes open and common sense in your head. I respect hard limits and may push you on other soft limits should I desire it thus.
We are a poly home! That you come to us shows that you are ready to share both Master and Mistress. Should it occur where we decide to add another to the home, your views will be sort and taken into equal consideration. However, remember I and I alone make the final decision.
If you can handle all this, we are open for both boys and girls and preference will be given to those who are bisexual and you may be involved with either or both the Master and/or the Mistress at any time either sexually or involving BDSM Play.
I enjoy: Bondage (Rope at the moment), Needle Play, Canes, Crops Breast Torture, CBT and a few other things I have not yet tried but want to. I am open to learning new things and have no hesitation in allowing a sub/slave to teach me.
I will have nothing to do with Children, Animals nor Scat and I will not allow drugs other then those prescribed by a physician in my home.
Whilst I normally seek slaves, I am equally happy to look at subs, especially in the area of BDSM as casual or regular play partners. We tend not to be involved with public play at this time but as all things, this may change.
You will need to live in reasonable distance from us. (Beenleigh, Australia ~ South East Queensland). There is no point in making an application if you live overseas as in part due to the draconian immigration laws here I will not wait several years for you to get permission to live here.
Warning!
There are two primary deal breakers:
1: Liars. If you feed me a lot of BS about yourself and I detect it, you will be sent packing.
2: If you for any reason attempt to create a breach between Lady Neets (my wife) and I, or in any way attempt to supplant her in my affections or her position of the Lady of The House, your feet will not touch the ground on your way out of the gate.
People I Love and Respect:
- People who have humanity.
- People who have honour.
- People who have integrity.
- People who have discipline.
- People who have a sense of duty.
- People who care!
People I can not Tolerate:
- Mean minded people.
- People who are bigoted.
- People who pour abuse and derogatory comments on other peoples' works and have no creative ability themselves.
- Craven cowards.
- Abusers and attackers of: The aged, the infirm, the young, women, religions and Priests and priestesses (in any form) of any religion.
Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence!
Talent will not; nothing is more common that men with talent.
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.
Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts.
Persistence and Determination alone are omnipotent!
(Calvin Coolidge) I wish you well!
Iron Bear Master of Bruin Cottage
(A Victorian Lifestyle Home)
My life for my Queen.
My soul for my Goddess.
My heart for my Lady.
My Honour for Myself.
Cuiusvis hominis est errare; nullius nisi insipientis in errore perseverare .
(Any man can make a mistake; only a fool keeps making the same one).
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