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JeffBC
Dom/Sub Couple, 49/56,  British Columbia, Canada

 

JeffBC

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 JeffBC

 Dom/Sub Couple

 British Columbia 

 Canada

 02/12/12

 06/15/13

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 Male

 Dominant

 6'0"

 176 lbs

 49

 Caucasian

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 5'7"

 142 lbs

 56

 Caucasian

At one time known as "Leadership527" here.


 


Here's what you need to know.  If you look at our tags on the discussion boards what they say is, "I am for her" and "I am for him".  That is the ultimate truth of our relationship.  Beyond all the details... more important than trivial things like who's bossing who around... way more significant than any label like dom or sub or master or slave... is the fact that we are for each other.  Both Carol and I will mold ourselves without mercy to be the best we can be for our partner.  Neither one of us is willing to accept any compromises from ourselves.  If the marriage needs it, whatever "it" is, the moment is a stand and deliver moment.  In many ways, the only difference between us is that I'm the one who sorts out what needs the marriage has.


 


The pillars of our marriage are love and intimacy.  The authority dynamic rates far down the scale of important stuff.  


 


If you want a rough approximation, think about a married couple who are DEEPLY in love and incredibly close in every way where the husband calls all the shots and the wife willingly obeys.  Maybe what a BDSM person would call TPE without all the sexual hijinks.  


 


Carol's profile says it all pretty clearly too.


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