"~Drums pale fingers on keyboard~ well this is where I spill My life out on  the screen ~Smirks~..."

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 JoyfulMistress

 Dominant Female

  Norman 

 Oklahoma

 5'6"

 41

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 10/31/07

~Drums pale fingers on keyboard~
well this is where I spill My life out on  the screen
~Smirks~
My Name is Joy and I am a Mistress ~laughs~
okay okay sorry been watching Dexter a tad too much these days and it is so funny he is going to a twelve step program to help him stop from being a serial killer !
All kidding aside..
I am a real time Poly Mistress who is the Matriarch of Clan SangSoift Within the clan there is Myself, My masochist, My kinder , The Enforcer
~gentle smile forms~
who is a wonderful loving man also a grand bodyguard if I need him to be ,his sub and minx.
I am now graced with a sweet young man who has accepted My collar and jumped into a  24/7 relationship .He is My pet,My kitten,My joy.Though most in the Clan call him mouse ..
~Laughs~
Update :: My lil juliebean has found her way back *Home* great to have her giggling backside back in the mix!

Basically we are a family and much like many nilla homes when something goes wrong the mother or in this case the H.B.I.C.(Head B*tch in Charge)steps in to make things right and to lay down the law,only this is not nilla but rather...a  very wonderfully twisted life we live ....

~Licks crimson stained lips before beeming for a second lost in thought~

Now if you wish more personal or suitable info .. here goes.. I have been in this lifestyle for 24 years the first seven I spent on My knees so to speak under a wonderful Man who not only taught Me what it takes to truly give over with trust and love yourself to another but also showed Me how hard a task and long a journey that is ... He also trained Me to be the Mistress I needed to be. Lucky Me ... even when I didn't know it .. He saw that I was best suited for being the One in control.I cannot thank Him enough ... he is a wonderful man and to this day I think very highly of Him and how he started Me off on this twisted and dark yet romantic and erotic path.

in case anyone was wondering:

I have some under My wing be it protection or consideration.The process of Consideration  is not a quick one as I only wish to offer permanent collars .. in short not a velcro one that is ripped off and slapped back on etc...

I dislike such drama so much and will not stand for it in My life any longer.

.....

So here I am today ...many have crossed paths with Me and some have stayed some have moved on ... each I am tickled to have met and hopefully helped along their  way ..
 for those that remain ..
thank you ..
I adore you to no end


I am sure I have left a lot out and by all means if you wish to know something feel free to ask ...
Where most of Mine are shy..
I am ...
~Smirks~
so not shy ..
by all means .. ask

or if you wish feel free to look Me up on Mydungeonspace.com
My  name there is Mistress_Joy
~Winks~
hope you and yours stay warm and find many reasons to enJoy yourselves
Little note: that chat request thing does not work  on this end so the best way to get ahold of Me is to leave a message