I'm happy with my lil, figured I would keep this up since it took so freakin long to evolve and write. We're actually looking to play with another girl, if we all like each other.
You: You don't need to be pursued or chased. Instead, you want someone to simply show genuine interest in you, and you will return it.
Me: I'm a single, straightforward and honest, empathetic, down to earth, equally intellectual and creative guy. Sort of a daddy, sort of a dom, sort of a lot of things. I tend to be a fixer, problem solver and mentor. People tell me I'm a take-charge kind of guy, but I see myself more as a decisive person who gets things done, and takes care of what needs to happen, and my own 'people' (I like helping others), and is sort of running the show...and the last one to leave the building. I just am what I am, I just am that way, and always have been, since childhood...so being dominant is not some "role" for me.
I don't telegraph "power" or have words like "strong" or "master" in my name or description. I think if you have to use strong adjectives to advertise how powerful you are, then you're probably not that adjective. I prefer to walk softly and carry a big stick, and don't try to use or abuse power. In fact, the only real power is that power that one gives up to others, and it's to be used proportionally and sparingly. That's all a fancy way of saying I try to not be a showoff, and I try to be humble and not take myself too seriously...but never, ever mistake that for not being strong, or ready to devour, whether it's sexually, professionally, or otherwise, as in - someone who fucks with me or mine (I'm very protective, but not stifling).
Nilla stuff: I love outdoors activities (hiking, city-walking, exploring), all types of music, rock, country, R&B, rap, funk, soul, alt, big band, hip-hop, latin, salsa, so many all over the world (you getting the idea yet:) ), anything to do with water (swim, snorkel, scuba, anything), exploring, blah blah blah...what matters is enjoying the person I'm with and enjoying their energy, more than where or what we're doing. I'd like to share the journey/life with the right woman.
KINK/BDSM DEPARTMENT: I'm not practiced" in BDSM or kink, as in, I don't "play", I am not into the public community - I think that's great for those who enjoy getting involved, and I have many such friends. But this is a more private thing - not that I hide it, but more that it's between me and her, and not something to flaunt or share, necessarily. That said, I do want to evolve and expand what it is that I do - what I've always done. The short description - is to control you (sexually or otherwise), for adventures, fantasies & role play, exploration and fun! But not before you feel safe, warm and protected (I'm a very romantic guy at heart).
Lil ranting here - I shout and scream that there's no sprinkling of magic BDSM dust that changes any of the life rules that apply to all human relationships. So if you're interested in me, can you please recognize that it will be a human thing first, and we must relate on that level first. Therefore, please only call me "Sir" or "Master" or capitalize anything referring to me unless 1) It's my real name, or 2) You know me and I've earned it. Everyone has VERY different ideas what this all means, so if we're to be more than friends, let's make sure our desires and goals are complimentary - please inquire within :)