" You will find in my journal previous profile entries that reflect apart of who I am.  This ne..."

You will find in my journal previous profile entries that reflect apart of who I am.  This new profile is a furthe reflection of myself.

What is fun?  BDSM is an interesting world and many are motivated to engage into this world for the pleasures that come from the activities.  It is often tied to ones sexuality and generates intense sexual pleasures in the course of engaging in the activities.

In Part, BDSM can and does provide alot of sexual gratification for me and those that I play with.  However, it is not always about sexual gratifications.  In fact, sexual gratifications are secondary to my motivations to play. 

It is the bonding experience and what I learn about myself and my partners is what drives me in this world of BDSM pleasure.  I have found that the variety of activities that I have engaged in brings forth a sense of emotional and mental stimulation that far out lasts the physical pleasures that are gained.  

I am driven not to try new and interesting activities for the sake of physical gratifications but to stimulate our emotions and thougths from the activities. 

I believe that each person brings to the play an energy of their own.  In coming together our energy melds together and enhances each other from the experience.  It will ignite our minds and hearts with thoughts and emotions that will send us on a journey.  Sometimes the journey is short and sometimes it could last a life time.  Either way we will be enriched from the experience.  But I always hope for a journey of a life time.

There is no denying that a significant part of the path goes through the physical pleasures that we can enjoy in our BDSM activities.   The physical pleasures are like a key to unlocking our hearts and minds to the journey and unleashing the energy that is within us.    However, the key is not the simple strike of a flogger or paddle.  But it is the combination of sensations that are done with varity of intensities, flow and pulse of action.  The key is like a musical piece that both demonstrates technical skill and artistic creativity.

So what is fun?  Is it the momentary pleasure of the body.. or is it the enriching journey from an experience?