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Not looking for anything here other than witty repartee', visiting with friends....yada yada yada...
Unless of course the unimaginable comes along. A slave that really wants to get from behind the computer!
Please note: I suck at remembering if I've called or written, and who. Sometimes I am busy....driving....working......whatever, think "I need to get back to **whomever**, then get where I am going, get involved in work or horses or whatever, then later when I have time to actually DO it, I think I already HAVE. Simply because I had thought I need to. So, if you are going to think I have lost interest, didn't have interest,whatever.....you are probably wrong. As those that work for me know, you need to keep your face in my face until I tell you to get out of MY face! Or, I do what I needed to do......
I juggle a lot of balls and don't have a secretary/slave to keep handing them to me. I occasionally drop a few.
About me......just for your information.
I have a wicked sense of humour and love life with all that it offers. I do my best to not take myself too seriously. I believe in constant growth and education. This is reflected in my daily life and activities. For some that may be boring as hell, too bad. I know myself and my priorities. If they are not yours, no harm no foul.
I do a lot of hiking when time and weather allows. I am a total rock geek. I am always looking for interesting rocks to drag back home. They are a huge part of the 'art work' of my life. I am also photographer and tend to drag my bag of gear around with me most everywhere. Much of my free time is spent sorting and editing photos. Occasionally someone actually pays me to do this!
Important!
I live on a farm in SE Iowa. Rather boring if you like an active nightlife. I also share that house with a male of the species. He is about as vanilla as you will find. No, you won't serve him sexually. Not his bag. You would have to be courteous and respectful of his space. He is a wonderful human being and my best friend AND HUSBAND. We have a long history. Sooo, if you can't stand the idea of being around a guy, I am not the mistress for you.
As for what interests me in a woman. Yes I said woman, because submissive or slave, she is a human being and woman first.
I need clear communication. I don't want to have to make assumptions or try to read between the lines. A few emails or phone calls only tells me you enjoy visiting. It does not tell me you are interested in belonging to me. Communicate communicate communicate!!! She must be willing to continue to move forward in a timely manner. I refuse to play the internet game indefinitely. Ask me questions, whatever you want to know to begin to trust. Offer me more personal info...name, personal email, IM contact info, phone conversation. I understand safety issues, I understand fears. Communicate them, I can work with them, but always moving forward. Remember, trust works both ways. If I feel I am being bullshitted, I will withdraw. I don't particularly care to hear about your fetish interests immediately. Trust me, outside of a few major things, I am probably open to most. What matters MOST to me is the inner person, what drives your submission and what brings you to me. I want to get inside your head. The submissive or slave for me will belong to me in ways far stronger than just physical bonds. Yes, those are fun too, just not my primary focus. If your unsure of something about me, what I want/expect, write me and ask me. I like questions. I also like new ideas, things that make me go "hmmmm..." One thing that will turn me off immediately is sending me your wanker material. A shopping list of "I want you to do *** to me" Screw that! I want to know what you have to offer as a submissive or slave. What makes you unique? What made you want to contact me? What makes you want to continue to communicate with me? What are your hopes and dreams, fears? Deepest darkest secrets.... I repeat, do NOT send me shallow "do me" bullshit. On a good day you will just get ignored. I value a good sense of humour and intelligent conversation. Expect to use both. If you are sitting there thinking.....SHEESH!! what a bitch!!! Why yes I can be, thank you very much. Move along and save us both the hassle of debate though my temper has such a very long fuse you cannot possibly anger me, I would just be toying with you like a cat with its prey...Ahhh TIGER!
NOW: If you have gotten here and still wish to communicate with me I think we will get along splendidly. If you put the words "lady tiger" in your your first message to me.....you are a treasure already! |
