" Sadist.  Dominant.  Grey parrot owner.  Unrepentant doublespacer.   ..."

Sadist.  Dominant.  Grey parrot owner.  Unrepentant doublespacer.    A marshmallow with a titanium core. 

If you feel that you have to ask permission to speak to me, rest assured that I do NOT want to talk to you.    Same story if you refer to yourself or me in the third person.  My name is not "Mistress".

Sex acts do not constitute "service". 

I am only interested in those who want real time interaction away from the computer.   I am SINGLE, you should be too.

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~~so we can cut to the chase:  I am primarily looking for  the following:

         MALE MASOCHISTS, aged 35-55
         FEMALE MASOCHISTS, any age
          that are LOCAL to Metro Detroit
         and interested in PUBLIC play as
          part of their interaction with me
          LOCAL means that I can get to 
          you in an hour or LESS.  
          Ohio is not local.
          Other states are even less so.


NO!!!  ~~~ Sissies, CD's, pantyboys, AB's, humiliation players, toilet players, cuckold wannabes,  orgasm deniers,  or lowly worms.    This doesn't mean that I hate you or your kink, just that I do not seek it in a  partner.

If you want to get to know me, head over to the  message boards, where I post daily, especially in the Polls & Random Stupidity section.  

I am SADISTIC, POLYAMOUROUS, POLITICALLY LIBERAL,  NON-XTIAN.  I am looking for  committed relationships, but not marriage or live-in at this time.     Good, reliable play partners,  friends, and maybe even a romantic relationship.  My subs are my companions, not just my pets or playmates.  We must be compatible in vanilla life as well as kink.   Please note that I am interested in MASOCHISTS---even if you are not a submissive, we might have something in common!   S/M doesn't have to include D/s in my world.   If you are a kinkster or bedroom bottom that is FINE, just be honest about it.

If you want my attention, engage my mind!  If you can make me laugh, you're most of the way there.     Public play is  a MUST for anyone who expects to serve me, so if you can't handle that,  don't ask for my time.    If you have never done anything in public, I am willing to work you up to it slowly.    Private play is part of the deal as well, of course. :)

 I have checked all the male orientations, because I have had dominants serve me in the past, and I enjoy equal relationships with other dominants.    I am not submissive in any way.  I am also not interested in married men except as friends, so have the good grace to not waste my time if you are cheating on the Mrs.

I read most of  my mail,  I do NOT guarantee a response.   Friendship has no age limit, but I prefer to play with those aged 35-55.   This means that if you are under 35, there is nothing for you here but conversation and friendship. 

I am not the kind of dominant that wants a sub kneeling at her feet, calling her by a title, or scrubbing her bathroom tile.  I am interested in a MAN (not  a "boy") who can stand by my side and hold his head high.   If you're looking for a shrieking harpy or fetishwear clad stereotype,   you have not found her in me.  I am a kind and loving person who likes to bite hard.   I don't pull any punches or have a hidden agenda.  I make my needs clear, and I want to find out about yours too.  

****I am not everyone's dominant, and until we have agreed otherwise, we are two people getting to know each other.     I do not like honorifics other than "ma'am".   While I am capable of relationships that do not involve power exchange, bear in mind that I AM a dominant all the time.  You are not the boss of me, even if you are also a dom.  

     ~~The obligatory negative rant~~
I am not a professional dominant anymore.  I do not do "sessions", or meet to play RIGHT NOW.   I am not a female supremacist!    I do NOT play with married men, unless their spouse gives me permission.   That means that the SPOUSE and I have a conversation, in person.

I attend Wicked and Space when I can, and the Flint Adults Munch.   Feel free to come up and introduce yourself.  You'll have to be at one of those events if you want to be with me anyway!  :)

*** I love to chat, but I expect we go to a REAL TIME MEET as soon as possible if we like each other.   I love coffee (double cream, no sugar), and it's World O'Coffee Shops out there.    My schedule is wide open in the summer.