| Submissive seeks Dominant male, for ongoing real time, real life M/s D/s relationship.
My BDSM is SEXUAL... but NOT all about sex. Seek to serve and please in M/s and D/s dynamic.
I am not looking for a quick fix, or a quick "lay", thank You anyway.
Ideally, I am still after a committed long term relationship. We both know that it takes time to know one another and build that. The journey is still wonderful, and I can embark on it with a "see what happnes" mentality.
I am open to considering CLOSED poly, or negotiated poly in the right relationship, with the right person(s).
I am very real, I am very serious.
In the last fw years, I have learned that I can endure and enjoy things I never thought possible in this Lifestyle. I have participated in scenes that some would consider "edgy".
I have also learned that I am not primarily a masochist. (Although I have been accused of being a pain slut) If You are an extreme sadist, I'm not Your girl.
I do crave intensity in all things. I enjoy impact play immensely: nothing beats a good hard flogging. I love spankings, paddles, slaps, pinches, all kinds of play - and I enjoy seeing the marks play leaves on my body as well...
This stems from an "ownership" and "control" and "submissive" need, rather than a truly masochistic one. Do You know the difference?
I am not overly jaded or cynical. I am positive and upbeat. I believe in potential, and chemistry and the power of a relationship built on TRUST.
I am very submissive under the right circumstances, but this quote, from a friend, suites me very well also:
Quoted with permission from Max Faust: in one of His many incarnations :D
"Please don't try to convince me that I should be anybody else than who and what I am, because there are plenty of those who actually ARE someone else, and who won't have to pretend to not be me. Go play with those instead if you aren't ready for me."
I am always looking for friends in the lifestyle.
I am open and honest, and will answer respectful questions without hesitation for both new friends and inquiring Dominants.
Interested?
... flirty, playful, sometimes sarcastic sense of humour enlcosed. |
