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♫♪ Hi - I'm LillyBoPeep! ♪♫
I'm a somewhat shy, artsy, short, curvy, submissive little girl with "slavish tendencies."(Note: my identification as "little" doesn't mean i'm into ageplay or that i require a Daddy to take care of me or buy me stuff, or that i'm a brat, or into diapers, or that i'm constantly silly; "girlishness" is just a part of my personality.) I believe relationships are built on more than kinky play or sex, and I'm hoping to find someone I can be truly happy with, but I'm also open to making friends and having riveting conversations. ^_^
I'm interested in a power exchange relationship built on the honesty of who we are together, as people. Previously, I was not able to explore M/s;O/p as deeply as I would've liked.
* Currently, I'm?not interested in couples, or married individuals.*
I'm interested in sadistic, dominant men who think for themselves, who have a natural inclination towards leading; those who live authentically. I'm pretty fond of creative, handy, intelligent take-charge people; physical superiority is a big turn-on (as is the willingness to use it =p). I'm interested in people who can stimulate my brain in a "vanilla way," not just a kinky way; those who enjoy conversation on a wide variety of topics.? Someone who is laid-back, sure of himself, and doesn't need to bluster. I'm also interested in long-term relationships with the possibility of family life, too.
By "slavish tendencies," I mean that, while I refer to myself as a sub, the level of service and submission I crave is far deeper. Simply put, I put all my energy into pleasing the person I'm with in whatever way I can. A great influence in my life taught me that words mean nothing, action is what matters, action is who you are. I'm happiest, it seems, when I'm serving some function, feeling useful, or making someone happy. Submission, as a part of life, isn't always easy, and sometimes it's the situations where we want to lash out and say "no!" where we learn the most.
I don't particularly believe in the "submission is a gift" mantra -- to me, D;M/s is about compatible personalities simply being honest and working together.
I have a wide variety of interests, and always like to expand my horizons.
I'm a student, an artist, bellydancer, masochist, lots of things. I love music of just about any genre, art in all of its forms, exploring old buildings, gardening, open spaces, varieties of domesticity blended with the life of a nomad. I'm the type of girl who wants to go hiking with you, and then make you a sandwich when we get home. ♥
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