I've decided to look for a partner beyond this bleak city. Essentially I'm looking for an LTR but until something materializes, I'll settle for therapeutic. I've lived in quite a few countries and think it's time I moved again - 20 yrs is enough here!!
Please get in touch if interested in having coffee with me when I'm in your area - if we seem to click, I'll hang around.
I'm an informed, balanced and considerate Dominant man iso a complementary submissive whose values and interests reflect her energy and curiosity about life in both Ds/vanilla modes. I'm empathetic, a decent psychologist with sound intuition and probably more of a giver than a taker, paradoxical as that may sound in D/s terms.
Outwith the sexual, which is a given, I value a relationship in which there is much open discussion - of anything and everything - yet we are attuned and sensitive to each other as partners. I want a committed relationship where my life is witnessed and filtered back to me in a loving and honest way so that I may know myself better and reciprocate in kind..
I want a woman who realises that the bdsm component exists as a bonding undercurrent and does not have to be flaunted. A woman who is intelligent, allowed to use her intelligence and to express her opinions and preferences, who can be funny, romantic, and allowed to be herself, and who can discuss matters.
I'm Anglo-European, have lived and worked in several countries, am retired from my last (for profit) successful career and am working on the most satisfying and challenging one of all. One which I renounced as a young man in favor of more mainstream work but which now gives me enormous emotional satisfaction - when it works):-.
I can be funny - haha not peculiar and am easy to be around. Picture is June 2008
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