** Edited to add I am looking for LOCAL people ONLY. If you are not local, please don't try to add me to your friends list or bother to try to "hook up"...no really, if I can't lick your pussy or crawl over your lap for a sound spanking, I'm not interested**
I am totally rewriting my profile today because the one I had seemed like a book. This one will probably turn out just as long but it may be worth the read. I suggest you read the whole thing before making any decisions as to whether or not you want to get to know us.
I am a married bi poly female switch. No, that does not make me confused, just greedy. Deal with it LOL.
I like women considerably more than men (they smell nicer and have softer skin) and I identify submissive more than dominant.
Ideally my household would consist of my husband and myself and a bi switchy girlfriend who would be sub to him and switch with me. I told you I was fuckin greedy didn't I?
I am ACTIVELY seeking ONLY an additional female in my dynamic.
Mr and I are very sexual in our D/s. Recently we have transitioned more to a 24/7 arrangement since our vanilla lives have calmed down enough to be able to do so. We do have a list of things that our D/s doesn't interfere with (health, legal, our kids, our proffessions etc) and we are able to speak to one another as equal adults when neccessary. To view our relationship from the outside, we probably look like a more equal/vanilla couple than D/s.
I prefer he be in charge as much as possible (that could be laziness) He owns my body and I like it that way. If he wants me to do it, I will to the best of my ability.
We want a **relationship** with someone whom we can relate to on equal terms with love and respect and trust and all that goes along with them. We are Not into sport fucking. If you get involved with us, even on just a casual basis, expect to put the work into developing friendship, maybe even with extra benefits.
Honesty and openness are imperative.
When it comes to the darker side of our interests we want someone who is comfortable in the role they choose to be in and is just as perverted and kinky as we are or is at least willing to sample from the vast BDSM buffet. First, they are a person with feelings and thoughts and an opinion, most importantly they need to have a strong sense of self worth, beyond that it's all about consent :)
Our BDSM interests include just about everything EXCEPT blood, animals, minors or illegal activities. Needles and knives scare the shit out of me and I have no experience with singletails and that lucite shit they make paddles out of these days is just fucking nasty. We like all things anal as long as it's SSC. I happen to be a bondage and spanking slut...oh who the fuck am I kidding, I am a slut period LOL.
I am not at all interested in sex with other men, ever. I may at some point be interested in a chaste service submissive, but that means NO sexual contact at all. You want to turn me on? Great! Clean my house! You want to get your own rocks off? Tough, do that on your own time.
As far as other couples and dominant men are concerned, we are also looking for casual scene partners, friends and kinky people in general to hang out with on a regular basis. Again let me re-state, I am not interested sexually (read: penis to vagina intercourse and oral stimulation in either direction) in other males, but I am a spanking slut and would have no issue crawling over the knee of or being tied up and tormented by the right person or people as long as both Mr and I are comfortable with that person (read: have developed a relationship and a sense of trust)
That does NOT mean I need you to ask Mr's permission or consent if I play with another dominant male, His consent would have been already requested and established at the time of scene negotiation. I however do insist that any other men I session with be well known by and trusted by Mr. That point I will not negotiate, it is a HARD limit for me.
He is strictly a straight dominant and would be only interested in playing with other females in whatever physical contact he and she negotiate. (anything He and she decide btw is OK with me, including sexual play) He relates very well with other dominant men and women and enjoys conversations involving the devious things we all like to do as well as geek speak so someone interested in computers and online RPG gaming is a big bonus LOL
Our vanilla interests include all things computer (he is a network architect) amusement parks, *sometimes* camping, weekends off in a nice hotel being spoiled and pampered and relaxing, good food and people with a sense of humor that don't take life too fuckin seriously. We attend the local dungeon (The Woodshed @ www.thewoodshedorlando.com for more info) on an occassional basis, time restrictions for us are our usual holdup. He and I are both complete smart asses, we like to laugh and we enjoy life as much as life will let us.
Don't be shy, send me a message. I'll read your profile before I respond though so if there isn't anything there I won't know anything about you to want to respond to ;)