| Seeking the balance between the black leather collar and the white picket fence.
I am neither guru nor savior, just another traveler on the path of BDSM. This is something I have been engaged in for over 20 years, both publicly and privately. My play style can be "heavy" but I am a firm believer that it is the reaction, not the action that gives the Dom his pleasure.
The one I seek is not a victim, the need to destroy another's soul is not Mastery, and it is the mark of the weak.
I seek a long-term D/s relationship with a woman who if not experienced, is at least mature and evolved enough to be open with herself, and with me.
I am honest, stable, and (mostly) sane, as is the woman I am interested in.
I seek one who understands that in an evolved S/M relationship, both are in service to each other, no matter who holds what title.
I do enjoy a bit of switching now and then, but I know what relationship works for me as well.
I seek a woman who can read the above sentence without her head exploding or being "blown".
I find that women who can't are more interested in the fantasy than the man, that doesn't work for me.
I seek a whole person, not just an archetype.
The list on the left is a guide, not a contract; everything is open to discussion, the hard rules being
safety, honesty, and integrity.
I know there are many kinky "medical" type folks out there, if you are one of them drop me a line, we might share the same crazy schedule
Motorcycle helmet a plus.
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