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Please Read ALL Of This
Before Mailing Me!
Read my journal too
If you live further than 60 miles or so.. reconsider, unless you want to make the trek.
If you decide to mail me, please include a picture if you don't have one in your profile. If your pictures are crappy, fuzzy, or simply body parts, it doesn't count with me. You've seen mine. I won't respond without one. Also write so I know you've read my profile. If you actually do read it, you'll see how to do that.
I seek a unique male submissive/bottom (or switch). Note that the word slave is not there. I am open to most things but do not need a sissymaid, do not do feminization, or cuckoldry. I enjoy many, but not all other activities. We do not have to be a perfect match on activities. I also just like to have a lot of fun, so if that appeals, please do send me a note. I have also learned with the right partner, anything is possible.
I am not at all opposed to a dominant male partner for play/co-topping others or whatever transpires.
Bottom line - black hanky, left pocket - covers most of it for me. If I were interested in toting a bunch more hankies, they would be red, purple, pink, grey and yellow on occasion. I do seek some mutual attraction. Please look up the hanky code to understand the things I like. I'm not doing your work for you. Google is always your friend.
I'm not really interested in someone exclusively focused on one activity or body part. I have many interests on many levels; I have balance, I seek balance. I think a strong, sturdy masochist is best for me.
I consider myself Femme, leather, and dyke (i.e., lesbian), in that order; if you'd like to know what that means, please ask.
You will find that I am honest, kind, unique, creative, fun, communicative, caring and nurturing, intelligent, affectionate, emotionally mature, and have a sense of humor. I am stable and do not need a checkbook. I have more than fifteen years of experience and can supply local references if you wish.
I'm good at what I do; I love every minute of it and have quite a bit to offer the right person. I enjoy playing quite a bit. I can, once a relationship is established, offer regular and hopefully mutally satisfying fun. And, yes, I do other things besides use a whip -- see my interests below. I'd like to enjoy those parts of life too, with you.
This position is for an open, honest, and different male individual. I don't want someone who is submissive at the drop of a hat. If you identify as completely submissive, or 100% submissive, we won't be compatible. Come to me from a place of power and give that power to me. The most likely compatible person is a switch, though I'm not counting anyone out so far. Submit to me, not anyone with a vagina. Come to me with confidence, selfesteem without too much ego, and know who you are.
If the idea of spending some time on the floor with my high-heeled shoe pressed precariously against your neck, is, at a minimum, fun, we'll probably get along. That thought gets me wet.
I would prefer you have some experience; please don't lie about it -- I'll figure it out eventually. I don't really want to 'train' someone brand new, or introduce anyone into the 'lifestyle'. Blah
I'd prefer you be healthy inside and out (muscles are good but not essential!); prefer you are equal or larger than me in physical size; have a youthful and happy outlook on life; be fun; communicate well; and know how to take care of yourself. I'd prefer you were between 30 something and 50 something and I'm not making exceptions. I have realized a strong and sturdy masochist is likely best for me. I could also use someone who will help push me at the gym and supplement the work my trainer and I are doing.
Do not approach me as anything other than a potential friend, anything else after that will be a bonus. That means "Dear Mistress" or "Ma'am" or anything like that doesn't work for me.
I'm not your Mistress or Ma'am.
Timid and shy don't work for me, but politeness and manners do.
I am interested in people who live in my area (or close but the distance is relative, I'm learning), are OUT, as in play publically and attend events, meetings and munches (or are willing to). OUT also means you're not married or partnered, unless that person knows about your activities and it will not interfere with me and my needs.
Let me be clear, I'm less interested in someone who is married. I've tried it and it would have to go very differently if it were to work.
OUT also means I'm not interested in online, I'm for real, please be real too. If discreet and/or webcam are part of your idea of a relationship, we're not right for one another.
I am a lesbian with a bisexual side. I have an interest however in a biological male in service on several levels but not fulltime. I am thought, interested in all possibilities and not counting anything or anyone out on the basis of gender or sexual orientation. If you don't know what "in service" means, or at least don't have some idea what it might mean, don't contact me. You'll need a bit more experience. If you are completely new to this, or want to be trained and/or molded, I'm not likely the right person for you. If you need experience, there are several very good groups in the area. Please attend meetings and workshops. Never learn your leather from just one person.
At this point, I do not think I am seeking a boyfriend or partner; but I am not interested in anything that resembles a one time experience. While I am interested in a relationship that is ongoing and mutally satisfying -- fulltime isn't what I seek. I am in no hurry. If you are, I am not the right person for you. If you push, I'll say "no, thank you." I am a lesbian, but I'm smart enough not to reject anyone on the basis of gender. I have also come to the realization that "never" is a stupid way to think. Life should be fun, no matter what that means.
If you decide to mail me, please include a picture if you don't have one in your profile. You've seen mine. I won't respond without one. Please write so that I know you've read my profile. (yes, repeated as it seems to get missed everytime)
I'm not shallow, but attraction is important to me; part of that is visual. My attractions however are far from conventional. I am happy to send along more pictures, eventually. One line emails, if I respond to them at all, will get the same back, not likely a positive response. Again, send me a picture.
I am comfortable in all kinds of settings and situations; from riding a motorcycle to putting on a silk corset and then some (and everything in between).
I am a difficult bitch to please. When I want ice cream, I want only one item at Dairy Queen and they don't always have it. Nothing else will do. You need to be able to finish it too, as I never can. You'll get the part I don't want. Please mention Dairy Queen when you write, so I will know you've read this all. Only a little bit more to go!
Things I really like but are not all essential: alpha males, kissing (essential actually), facial hair, bald guys, bald guys with facial hair, chest hair, hard bodies (please remember, thats an ideal, reality is different), people willing to flip for ME, heavy impact play, tight non-fussy bondage, sex, passion, masochists, intellectual stimulation, the beach, manners, cops and fire fighters, intense and deep connections, anything outdoors -- yes, anything!, motorcycles and bikers, traveling just about anywhere, kayaking, leather, sex and kissing again, dancing, heavy masochists, canes, kissing, coffee, the Grateful Dead, cooking, and me in lingerie.
Things that don't interest me or I dislike: people with active addictions (unless you share mine to coffee), playing with your wife, (GF, submissive or slave), slovenly or unkempt men (or women for that matter), cyber/online/vt stuff other than communication, age play, scat, people without a life outside of their SM or of CM and the internet, emotional games, know-it-alls, foot worship, chastity, diapers, crossdressing, feminization, cuckolds, lists of what and how you want me to do things, "Mistress, I can be anything you want me to be," games designed to illicit punishment, and oh so many other things.
Thanks!
I look forward to hearing from you.
My journal may hold more insight if you want to read it. Its a good idea to do that.
How will you impress me? write to my profile, tell me who you are, write complete sentences, follow what it says to do in this profile, and take some time to think about it before you do.
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