| 'Who am I?'
This is a question that can take a lifetime to answer. So how can we be expected to quantify it in a few lines before we even full understand the answer ourselves. But still we try...
First, the outward: I am a tall, quiet, reserved, gentleman who happens to enjoy a few things that do not fall into what society calls the norm.
In reference to those 'things': A Dominant, a Switch, a submissive. All labels that fails to encompass all that I am. As such, I identify most as a switch, but I think it is far better to say the context, and those involved determine where in this range I am. This is because different people tend to draw out different aspects of my personality. Get to know me, and find out which applies when you are there :).
I have a wide range of interests listed here, but I will say that it is not an exclusive list and I am open to exploration of new interests.
'What do I want?'
I believe Queen said it best “I want it all, I want it all, I want it all and I want it now”
But as we all know, this is unlikely to occur right now:) So I am open to a variety of situations.
I am open to communication with all those seeking or offering friendship, advice, teaching or mentoring.I am open to casual play, but have a preference for something more regular, as it allows trust and knowledge to build, making for a better experience. LTR is possible, but only after trust, knowledge and compatibility have been established and explored.
I do have a preference for fetishists, domestics, masochists, bondage enthusiasts, but more preference open up as trust and knowledge grow.
I have experience in the top, switch, bottom, and sub( *requires a rare Domme to bring out) roles, and would like to explore the Dom role.
In general there is no specific type that I am seeking, but enough chemistry and trust must exist that we both are comfortable. As well I would prefer a good communicator; Someone that is open to new experiences; Someone that has a clear idea of what they hope to get out of the experience(having a clear idea is much more important than what the idea/goal is).
Dommes are welcome to seek me out, a friend is always welcome, and if a good rapport exists, I have been known to volunteer as bottom for them to practice on, but be forewarned, only a very few have been able to bring out a true submissive in me. Mainly for psychological reasons Dommes who are taller(somewhat rare as I stand 6'5”) and stronger (capable of physically overpowering me) , and those who are petite (The contrast of a petite woman controlling a large man), may have an advantage.
I hope you have found something of interest in this profile. Feel free to ask questions if you have them, and feel free to leave a message.
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