"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. (The Diary of Anaïs Nin, volume 3, 1939..."

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 ManOfAdventures

 Dominant Male

 PDX,SEA,YXU,& YYZ 

 Oregon

 Willing to Relocate

 5'8"

 140 lbs

 39

 Caucasian

 10/11/07

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. (The Diary of Anaïs Nin, volume 3, 1939-1944)

Trust me, I'm from Canada...

For years I THOUGHT I was doing the vanilla thing, but over time I came to realize the common factor in my so called "vanilla" relationships was that the women were submissive. It seemed a little odd since being on a vanilla dating site is not like being on CollarMe, where people tend to seek out a Dominant or a submissive, yet in the "vanilla" world the submissives just found me anyway; A guy who knows what he wants and is really good at giving instructions to willing participants.

About a year ago I found my way over to CollarMe and quickly realized that I was no newbie. Tenure simply does not equal experience, the things I'm into, the things I've already done are all here, they've just got names now! It's why I don't consider myself a "Dom" in any conventional sense. There's no chip on my shoulder, I have nothing to prove, I just live my life Alpha the way I want to. I'm incredibly kinky, it's a huge part of me but at the same time it's just another layer of a life I fully enjoy.

I realize now that submissive women finding me, and I say "finding me" because I rarely send an initial e-mail, was no accident. We all seek the yin to our yang. If our lives are full and rich on their own we want to share that with a partner who's symbiotic.

So, with Dominance as a "given", it's the OTHER side of my life that needs further explanation. Rather than bore you with how many toys I own, since that's largely irrelevant, I'm going to just let the left hand column take care of my various kinks.

Instead I present to you, VERBATIM, my vanilla dating profile (It worked before!):

Would your ideal man:

Skydive?
Speak French?
Winter camp at -40°?
Pass on the Autobahn?
Be a published author?
Teach grade 1's to read?
Shave his head for charity?
Crowd surf at Woodstock 99?
Own a car but prefer a bike?
Play the guitar, albeit badly?
Rush an injured cat to the vet?
Have 800 count sheets on his bed?
Mud slide on a Nova Scotia riverbank?
Photograph Paris from the Eiffel tower?
Know the proper use of your vs. you're?
Ride a mechanical bull in a cowboy bar?
Make you laugh so hard you pull a muscle?
Call his mom because he knew she missed him?
Believe sports should be played not watched?
Watch a humpback whale teach her pod to hunt?
Hug a virtual stranger because they needed it?
Secretly shovel an elderly neighbor’s driveway?
Iceberg hunt off Newfoundland’s Northeastern coast?
Take responsibility when his best laid plans did not work out?
Listen silently, when you’re looking for validation not advice?
Leave six figures a year & a window office to do his doctorate?
Be metro enough to know Manolo Blahniks & Jimmy Choos are shoes?
Go blindfolded for a week to study how the blind use technology?
Talk until sunrise over local wine, wherever local may have been?
Run through freezing rain at 6am to stay on his marathon schedule?
Sweet talk his way onto the upper deck of a 747 for a transpacific flight?

If you answered NO to these, we're not a match, but best of luck with your search. If you answered YES to any of the above, we may hit it off, so email me if:

You have at least one book on the go right now, even if it's trashy
You enjoyed watching Amélie, The Princess Bride, or Six Feet Under
You're as comfortable in jeans as you are in a little black dress
Sometimes you smile so much your face hurts
You can hold your own at ANY dinner party

We're both on here to meet someone, it would be a shame if you passed by without at least saying "hi"...

Namasté
ChrisTopHer


I'm Portland based, but I frequently make it North to Seattle or East to Toronto

For my views on subs, slaves, Love, submission, and ownership dig deep in my journal, it's worth a read on it's own anyway, or check out this early forum post (you'll need to cut and paste):http://www.collarchat.com/m_1347734/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1348187