" I believe in SSC, but also DSG, which means Discreet, Safe, Gentleman.  If you wan..."

I believe in SSC, but also DSG, which means Discreet, Safe, Gentleman.  If you want to know what it means, ask.

I'm looking for mainly friends, and would be glad to give advice to anyone who wants to ask.

I live in
Hollywood proper, I work in the entertainment industry, and I like
going to jazz clubs, swing dancing, theoretical physics, and I go to
comedy shows all the time.

I also love scene-ing to classical music. It's a weakness of mine. :)


I've been into BDSM roughly since I was 10 (I blame Madonna), and I've been going to the clubs since 2006.

I'm looking for a switch. A woman who must be smart, and have a good sense of humor. She must be talkative (mainly because I hate talking
and I love to listen; that’s my real fetish, not S&M, but listening
in on conversations). Most importantly she must be driven and very
ambitious.
I do not want a slave. I want someone who is independent, and can be my partner, not just my bitch. She must be able to hold one’s self, and
have a charming personality. I go to many non-scene social gatherings,
and if she comes, she must be able to engage with people, and keep our discrete secret a discrete secret.