 Updated 27th of october 2008 life is a bitch and I am in it.. that sucks.....
A reality is that most of U/us feel safe in T/their own envirement and just a very few of U/us want to live it(BDSM) real time. ANOTHER reality is that if W/we look A/all in O/our own mirror W/we know what W/we want and are but often not A/all of U/us are that open to let O/others know. Is that a lie? No, it is more a protective sign because W/we know W/we A/all do it and want just to tell more about O/ourselves if there will be more personal contact. THIRD reality is that a profile gives an image to O/others how W/we want T/them to see O/ourselves.
THE REAL REALITY is always somewhere in the middle........
You know what the easy part is? To judge others.. you know what the hard part is? To look in the mirror and judge yourself...
Basic of any relationship is good communication, respect, sense of reality, trust, and honesty. D/s is , to My opinion , a more intense way of life and will fit in real well in a good social life. the perfect mix. I realise(d) an add is not a garantuee of a good relationship, it can be a start of one.. Some are looking seriously, most want to find out where they stand in life with those D/s feelings,but dont go any further as being playfull. To call yourself a Dom/Master/Mistress /sub/slave doesnt make you O/one..to experience, to live it for real does.
Is to be too honest a weakness, just being naive, or a gift? you tell Me..and yourself.
I am recently divorced, have My own business and home,am well organized .Have quite some experience in the lifestyle,but always open to learn of O/others, am active for about 6 years and know D/s is in My bones. Am patient,well educated. If you are interested to talk, feel free, to message Me I surely wont bite....and sharing can lead to who knows what. I dont promise, what I say is what I do..
I love to travel, good music,good cosy dinners,laughter,good talks,sports(yes also being active) and have real intentions to look for a home in USA/Canada and to start a life there.
Life is what you make of it, doesnt mean it is everyday a paradise..we have a soap called Good times, bad times The only truth is the title .. go figure..
I wont tell you what you want to hear just who I am.. can you live with that?... good.. |