| Read My Xmas journal you will love it !!!!!!
I am seeking a special kind of women, who in time will become my 24/7, lover, best friend, Life's mate, life’s partner one who I can spend all night just talking about nothing but everything.
One who likes to camp (RVonly) float trips and long walks to no where.
One who likes the live shows, the Zoo, wine tasting, and short trips to where ever you land.
One who loves laughter and is always up and high on life with out drugs.
When I find her she will feel as I do and know she is complete and found the missing piece in her life.
She will be pampered and cherished.
She will when out have doors opened for her showing the respect I have for her.
The women I seek may be Dominant and stand at my side as we share and use our sub/slave, she may be a switch that will serve this Master as his slave and will be allowed to have others serve he with Master at her side. She may be a sub/slave and serve Master at his feet and beside him in public.
She will be a lady in public when needed and a slut the rest, LOL
In the books, the duty of a sub/slave is defined repeatedly; she/he must be absolutely obedient and exquisitely beautiful in all ways at all times. Not an easy task, learning to bend her/his will in all things, nor does it happen overnight. The skill is learned and perfected over time with the Master or Mistress’s guidance as they draw out the natural sub/slave within and molds her/him into what they wish her/him to be.
No two Master's/Mistress’s are the same...except in so far as each is the total master, just as no two sub/slaves are the same except that each is a total sub/slave.... You must, accordingly, strive to understand, relate to, serve and please the unique Master or Mistress. You must bring your own individual personalities and talents to bear on this challenge. Try in your uniqueness to be perfect and become acutely aware of him/her. Be sensitive to his/her moods, and their changes. Find out what he/she wants from you, and then see that he gets it, and more. Find out what he/she wants you to be and then be it, beyond his/her wildest dreams. Remember that you are the sub/slave. You exist for his/her service and pleasure.
submission/slavery is so much more than a "belly flash" or a "roll in the furs." As the sub/slave develops, the Master/Mistress will provide a constant reinforcement of his/her ways and rules. You will tested in subtle and not so subtle ways, providing firm correction when necessary. The road from feeling that first little tingle in your belly to a complete awakening and total, pleasing obedience is neither a short nor a smooth journey.
The question then becomes, not if you will subjugate your will to that of the Master/Mistress, but how you will accomplish this. The sub/slave is compelled to look deep within to that part of herself that aches to serve; that part that can find ultimate fulfillment only in the knowledge and realization that His will is greater than hers. She/he will place her Master’s/Mistress’s wishes and wants above all else; His/Her smallest whim is greater than any want or need she may have, or think she/he has.
If you want to be noticed and found pleasing to the Master/Mistress -- be active, be useful. Find the little things that you can handle within His/Her home or chain, the small day to day things that need tending and take care of those so He does not have to be bothered. Do things to make His/Her life easier.
"But are there no other duties?" I asked.
"A girl's/man’s first duty, of course, Master/Mistress," she/he said, "is to be pleasing to her Master/Mistress."
"In what way?" I asked.
"In any, and every way, of course, Master/Mistress," she/he said shyly."
Learning to post a descriptive serve or write a steamy dance is the easy part of being a sub/slave. Learning how to be completely subservient, obedient and pleasing, regardless of how challenged you are by your own stubbornness or any outside influences is the difficult part of becoming fully sub/slave in your mind and heart. A sub/slave may fail because she/he has not been nurtured or has not been willing to accept the correction and training which will ultimately shape her into a true sub/slave.
A sub/slave's training will define what she is capable of, her actions show what her true potential is. Simply having the right attitude will go a long way in learning to please a Master/Mistress and becoming more than just one who pretends or plays a role. Attitude always shows whether it is good or bad. A sub/slave's eyes and ears are for listening and learning; her/his mouth is for obedience and pleasuring. In the in end, however, it is the sub/slave's own desire or need to please and her need to truly surrendered to her Master.
"What does a sub/slave owe a Master/Mistress?" he asked. "Everything, and then a thousand times more," she/he whispered.
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