| NO ONE OVER 35. NO ONLINE DOMINATION, LTR, MARRIAGE, OR SLAVES. I do not mind having a casual conversation with you, but do not expect anything more than this. DO NOT EMAIL ME IF YOU DO NOT READ MY PROFILE - I will know if you didn't. I do not care if my standards eliminate you, as that is the very reason for HAVING standards. I find it to be obnoxious/selfish/rude when my wants are clearly defined, and I continue to receive message after message from people who think they are somehow exempt. If your first message to me doesn't abide by my rules, what use will you be to me as a sub?
I HATE having to repeat myself, and people who are pushy or needy. There is no bigger turn off to me. If I say no to something, and you ask me again, you are gone - Forever. Only speak to me if you use proper grammar and spelling. Not doing so only shows lack of respect and general laziness. Onward, then...
Here's me in a sentence: I am a nerdy gamer cosplaying stoner psychonaut Discordian hedonistic goth rockabilly Bokononist metalhead artist writer Existentialist philosopher singer martial artist webmistress bisexual model and Mistress.
I am here looking for interesting people; artists, musicians, dreamers, activists, philosophers, rabble-rousers, and adventurers.
I identify as bisexual, but I am attracted much more to the person than I am the gender. I am poly by nature, but will be involved in a monogamous relationship if with the right person. I prefer my relationships to be built out of friendship first - it is very difficult to jump into a relationship, especially one as complicated as D/s, until we have an understanding of each other as people.
Although I enjoy the scene, I am not what you would call a lifestylist. It is not a defining characteristic of my personality nor an essential part of my life - I am not looking to build my entire life around this one "hobby". I am a multifaceted person with a variety of interests, which I believe strengthen and reinforce eachother. I think people who define themselves solely as a sub, a Dom, or a slave tend to lack any potential for long term interest. There needs to be more to you than just a desire to serve me.
I wouldn't mind some sort of training (from a female ONLY) and I learn very quickly - I have always been extremely adept at psychology, which is half of what BDSM is anyway. Although I have an excellent natural ability anyway - more formal training would only enhance. My form of domination is more subtle than outright punishment (although this will occur also). Most people do not even realize what I am doing. I have had several "subs" over the years who were not even aware of their position yet would obey me without question. I am extremely quick at learning what makes a person tick - What motivates them, what they want, and how to manipulate them, break them down, and build them up again.
I have several tattoos and piercings and pose for a variety of alt-porn (tattoo), BDSM and cosplay (costumed) sites as well as doing fetish performances in the area. I am also a massage therapist - I know how to make people feel good, and I have a deep understanding of anatomy - which helps when I want to make people hurt.
Because I am a bisexual female, I can fill a variety of roles. I switch - RARELY - and it takes an extremely strong Dominant to make me submit. I am not someone who is going to submit to you just because you tell or want me to. My submission is something that must be earned, and I can count on one hand the number of people who have had any amount of success. Because I am young, fit, female, adept and attractive, I am extremely picky with those I'll allow to be involved in this part of my life. Anyone who cannot provide me with intellectual stimulus will not last long.
Despite all this, I am still an extremely fun person. I get along with nearly everyone I meet, and am almost always very well liked. Very few people will see me angry - I generally do not allow people to have any sort of effect on my mood or demeanor. My anger and punishment is reserved for only a handful of situations, but it is swift and extreme. I do not allow people to mistreat me, I do not play into mind games, and above all I do not suffer people's bullshit or ill manners.
I am NOT interested in owning a slave - I believe respect is a 2 way street and that this is not a healthy relationship to be in. I am not here to judge you, if this is what gets you off then by all means go ahead, but it is not something I am interested in. Just because I am Dominant does not mean we are not equal - Both parties have to be fulfilled in their position in order for the relationship to be successful.
While I am not looking for financial slaves, gifts are welcome if you so desire :)
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