
	Right now I'm open to meeting people for either taking to the occasional SM party or possibly working toward a LTR. It would be fun to find someone I get along with well to take to an occasional play party. It would be lovely to meet someone who could be a good match for me in the vanilla world and also have fun with SM play in private. The first things I look for when using this sight are physical attraction then similar interests. I have a recent head shot of myself as a second photo on my profile and will ask from one from you if I'm interested. I am private about my interest in SM in the vanilla world but not paranoid about someone stumbling a my pic in this sight. If you are here you are kinky too. Sorry but there are way to many people who contact me for me to keep up with people who are not willing to attach a tasteful recent photo to an email. Please also understand that if you do this and I do not get back to you it is just that I feel that there would not be a spark for me if we meet in person. If you do hear back I will probably want to talk on the phone as I do not like IMing. If I am intrigued after that I will want to meet for coffee and see if that intrigue continues. SM is a strong interest of mine and has been for about 10 years. It is not my only interest and in order to consider someone (for more than just a party) I need the person I am seeing to see me as real human and not just a fantasy. In a LTR I am searching for someone who can be sexy in vanilla ways as well as SM ones. I am a fairly liberal person and find I get along best with open minded people. Please only contact me if you are close to my own age (within 10 years), fit, and either in the Portland area or can travel easily and can do it frequently. I am not currently in a committed relationship and am only interested in others in the same situation.