Mistress makes it hurt and Mommy makes it better.
I just moved back to Toronto after three years in New Orleans. I'm involved with a few ppl; only looking for those who understand and welcome that. .
What I Looking For: People who like to play and have fun, can offer great service and have a strong understanding of the leather lifestyle and bdsm.
In terms of play, I do casual bdsm play at events or privately. I am interested in finding a submissive who can provide domestic service, or other similar skills. I'd also like to see if I can find a baby boy or baby grl.
I am particularly interested in queer grls and transmen. I am also open to submissive/slave men who have a strong understanding of who they are and what it means to be a submissive/slave.
Please write and tell me about yourself, your interests and skills (vanilla and kink). Not just "I will do anything for you - please own me Mistress". I hate one liners and they won't get answers.
Who are you? What makes you tick? What are you looking for? What do you have to offer? What do you like about my profile (being specific counts)? What are you passionate about?
What I am NOT Looking For: At this point I am not interested in having any live-in subs/slaves. I would consider intense ongoing relationships however. I am only looking for real life; not online. This means someone relatively local and mobile. If you live far away or ask for online you will rarely receive a reply. The only kind of online play I will do is if you pay me :-)
A bit about me: I am a PhD student from Toronto studying Katrina/BP/disasters generally. I am involved with lanoble.org when I am in Louisiana and have been involved in the scene in Ft Lauderdale and Toronto. .
I've been in the formal "scene" for over 16 years. I had been playing casually with partners for many years before that. I am into the S/m as well as the D/s sides of BDSM. I am very ethical in my play, and expect honesty and openness. (Honesty is Rule #1, Communication is Rule#2. Anything else can be discussed later).
I am a sadist and a Domme, but have a soft maternal side too --- and yes, as my nickname hints, I also have an interest in age play (including Adult Babies/Diapers Lovers). I like to teach the ins and outs of life, sex, relationships, the world....
I like to hurt, and I like to make it better. I am into the S/m as well as the D/s sides of BDSM. I am very ethical in my play, and expect honesty and openness.
I have a real Mommy look - with "child bearing hips" - as some say. I'm a BBW and proud of my curves; if you want a skinny lil thing look elsewhere. :-P
In terms of "looks" of a partner I am fairly open. Height, weight, race are not fixed needs.
Age is also relatively unimportant, but maturity is a must. Someone with a brain, and a pretty decent awareness of the world, preferably employed and able to pay their own way (not asking for financial service, just not to have to pay the whole shot myself).**Note**
sometimes I check messages on my phone or while in the midst of other tasks, and can't reply immediately. I do try to get back to people but sometimes messages get lost as I often receive many each day. If you think we've clicked, don't give up :-)