| A clean-cut, tall & husky, non-smoking, unpretentious, 100%-straight white dude who enjoys women, bondage, and playing rough, looking for the same.
While I like playing rough, I don't have much experience playing the sadist and may need a little coaching. I'm also not into the whole Gorean trip. I like both the physical side of bondage & "punishment" and the mental. I particularly like steel bondage - handcuffs, padlocks & chains, that sort of thing.
Looking for a good woman to share those desires with, preferably a strong, uppity, feisty, rebellious bitch who's not easily controlled. Somebody interesting and challenging. Certainly not an obsequious doormat. What's the point of being dominant if submission comes automatically and you don't have to earn it? Might as well "dominate" a garden gnome.
Lately, I've been feeling the urge to step it up a notch and get in touch with my inner sadist. If you're titillated by the idea of being bound and punished, and you like the idea of both your body and your mind being tormented, I could be your man. I'm yearning to explore the darker side of human psychology, to see how the mind responds when pushed to the limit. (the body, too, but anybody can do that)
I look OK. Just OK. Not GQ, but neither do puppies and small children flee upon sight. I like using blindfolds because they lead to bigger & better orgasms, not because it's essential to conceal my looks to prevent my partner from running screaming into the night. I haven't posted a picture here because I don't want my boss or clients to know, but I'll be happy to send you one privately upon request.
note: that's "send you one privately", not "upload one onto collarme.com, naively hoping & praying their privacy & security measures are adequate."
I'm looking for an ongoing real-time get-together. Not a big fan of one-time things; not interested in spending more time with my computer.
And while I want to explore all these dark corners of the human psyche, I'm not clueless. I know it'll take time to evolve and I'm willing to spend the time. I ain't exactly an impetuous nineteen-year-old any more.
Likewise, I'm not looking for a kinky-only relationship. There are times when I'm in the mood for vanilla, or just, you know, relating.
I'm about 90% Dom, 10% switch. (I can set that aside if you're 100% sub)
College grad, respectable profession, (protector of the public health & safety) never married, no kids.
Southeastern Michigan/southwestern Ontario/northwestern Ohio only. You must either live here, travel here, be open to relocating here, or it's just not going to happen. Open to the idea of a live-in, or more, after an appropriate amount of getting-acquainted time. (months, not minutes)
Update: I have an income, a vehicle and a residence; I can travel or host. Apparently, that actually doesn't go without saying here. Who'd'a thunk it?
Completely safe, sane & consensual, ddddf, big fan of safewords and safecalls. While I'm not clueless enough to post a picture of myself here, I do encourage a smartphone picture of me and my house being part of your safecall.
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