Divorced male seeking more than just vanilla with submissive females.
I am educated, liberal, and not religious. I'm also silly, independent, and a pet lover.
My idea of a perfect date is fine dining (I'm a food snob) and discussion, with the evening becoming more and more sexual charged as the night wears on, leading up to about 3 hours of play, which starts long before we get home.
I'm not looking for 24/7 - just some fun times, and casual relationships for now. Casual relationships can evolve into something more serious, but that takes time.
Play is play and doesn't get in the way of the rest of life. Away from "the bedroom" expect a clean, respectful, "normal" relationship. Dinner, movies, and generally fun outings.
Just because I like alternative sex, doesn't mean I believe in abuse or injury. I'm not interested in bratty types to are "bad" just to be "punished". Punishment doesn't interest me.
Seeking:
Submissive women under 45. Race/looks are generally unimportant, but she needs to have a very dirty mind and a willingness to please.
I have learned not to make assumptions ahead of time about what kind of women are "right" for me. I've found that people from all backgrounds, education levels, and types of careers can have good times and meaningful relationships. Chemistry is something two people from any walks of life can have. Can you screen for chemistry on a profile? I don't think so.
Minimum Requirements for her:
* a shaved pussy
* willingness to dress like a slut in public. I love to show a girl off and have her turn some heads. Short skirts with no panties are a must so I can feel her in the car, or in restaurants.
* limited public play (see above)
* anal/oral/vaginal sex in a variety of position
* masturbation (her) for my pleasure
* use of toys and objects
* anal play - I enjoy using toys and fingers and objects on her, not so much her on me
* mild humiliation for her (name calling during sex, mild acts)
* hair pulling
Optional:
I pretty much have no bounds, but I will respect yours. As long as I have the minimums (above) I'm happy, but I do like some other activities.
Some of these thing I've done, but some are fantasy. Not all fantasies can be fulfilled, I know. But if there are things here that interested her, I'd enjoy them as well.
In no particular order...
* hardcore public play that could include full nudity and sex in public places, wearing coats and nothing else in public, changing rooms, elevators, hotel hallways, between parked cars, window play.
* light bondage - some ropes, tape, or other restraints
* leashes and collars for her
* rimming (oral anal)
* some pain - clamps, tape, paddles & brushes, some painful insertions, spanking/slapping (not the face)
* harsh humiliation - writing on her body, degrading speech (giving her things to say to say about herself), other
* begging from her
* extreme insertions including fisting, panties, large object, other
* occasional water sports (not frequetly, usually as a sign of loyalty and obedience)
* threesomes MFF, or just FF while I watch
* gang bangs for her - 3 or 4 or more men on her while I watch/direct
* nude/erotic photography - almost never shared, but we can share if she wants to :-)
* service - such as cleaning/cooking in the nude, giving baths, etc.
* play "beyond" the bedroom - she is given (sexual) tasks to perform such as "send me pictures naked pictures of yourself in a changing room from your cell phone" or "wear a butt plug out while you go shopping"
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