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I WILL NOT RESPOND TO ONE LINERS, OR TO THOSE FROM OTHER COUNTRIES (people have a really hard time with this, all the words are spelled correctly and proper grammar was used, which is why it baffles me that I get so many).
I have been in the lifestyle for 20+ years. I was very active in the Houston community, when I lived there. I currently reside just east of Dallas. If you are not within a reasonable driving distance, or willing to make suitable arrangements, please save us both some time, and don't bother. I am not looking for a part time submissive/slave however, under the proper circumstances, I will consider a part time submissive, with the understanding it is not what I am ultimately looking for. I am not interested in being treated as a pro-domme and given a "do me" list.
I am looking for a male slave/submissive, ultimately for a 24/7 TPE relationship. I thrive on the power and control that is given to me by a slave. I am looking for someone that I can have conversations with, someone that I can have fun with both in the BDSM and vanilla worlds. I am looking for someone that can keep up the appearance of being a vanilla couple in public and with family, while still knowing their place. I am strict with one that I own, and expect obedience (I really hate repeating myself too many times). I do however, like to have fun. I love to laugh, life is just too short not to enjoy it. I have high expectations. I am looking for one that is strong in his every day dealings but gives himself to me, mind, body and spirit. I am looking for someone who understands what it is to be submissive, not just looking for kinky sex. I am looking for the one that gets great joy from serving and catering to my whims (which can be varied), with the only expectations being that of an appreciative mistress, not the expectation of sex (don't get me wrong, sex can be tons of fun).
At times I like to play hard, flogs, whips, canes, clothes pins, cbt, you name it. At other times I want to be pampered, have my dinner cooked for me, and properly served, bring me a drink while I am working etc., do some domestic chores, draw a bath, be ready at the calling to come dry me off, and put lotion on. At other times, I want to use your ass, long and hard, or have you suck my strap on, etc. At all times I expect a relatively high level of protocol.
I am a degreed professional with a solid career. I do not need a money slave, if you have that much extra cash laying around that you can give it away, feel free to give it to Salvation Army, Red Cross or SPCA in my name. On the other hand, I am not looking for a submissive/slave that wants/needs a free ride. If you can't maintain your own finances then please do not contact me.
My interests in BDSM does run the gamut (I started to fill out the check list on the profile, however, I just found it to be a bit tedious, and really did not represent my interests). How much I may or may not enjoy something is dependent on the person I am with, whether I am getting the reaction that I desire, and my mood at the time. I feed off the power exchange.
As far as hard limits, they are what I generally would consider pretty typical: Kids, animals, scat, and you will leave with the same number of appendages as you arrived with. Really you would think this should be common sense, I am not interested in breaking my boy so that he is no longer fun to play with or have around. However I have noticed that, especially on this site, common sense seems to be lacking.
Then there are what I call "soft limits" things that under the right circumstances I might do, but are highly unlikely:
*sissification (I like my males to look and act like males, no offense to the sissies, just not my thing) though putting a male in panties under his regular clothes has been known to happen
*not much into cuckolding, I tend to be monogomous with the one.
Then there is watersports. More likely to occur than the above listed, but really just not my thing. I will do them when the mood strikes me, but if that is one of those things you want done, don't count on it with me.
Now the tough part for some of you. I if I am not interested in an activity don't try to convince me to do it. I hate when a sub tops from the bottom. Doesn't mean you can't make suggestions, and we can discuss them. But you need to know where the line is between making suggestions and topping from the bottom.
I enjoy the S&M aspects, though the priority needs to be on the D/s aspects, the TPE.
I really do enjoy playing hard at times, however that is hard to do every single night, so it is important that the D/s aspects are solid, and protocols are kept up.
What I enjoy most is the power exchange. I can be quite the sadist with the right submissive, my experience has been that the true hard core masochist are not the best slaves, their goal is to be beaten, tortured etc, not serve. I would much rather have a slave that will on occassion take a paddling from me because it is what I want to do, as opposed to someone in which that is their goal.
I am D&D free and expect you to be as well.
Contact me if you have questions.
Do not bother to apply if you have pet allergies, the pets have priority, they were here first
You must be/willing to be or able to be trained to be a Dallas Cowboy fan (ok..I will settle for pretending to be, and not antagonizing me when I am watching or they lose).
I am NOT looking for an email/cyber relationship If you are married or involved in other relationships please do not waste either of our time with pleas to serve.
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