What do I look for? " To be able under all circumstances to practice five things constitutes
perfect virtue; these five things are gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness and kindness."
I am sensual and sane and I do not consider myself extreme. I am a natural Domina and sadist who is also loving and nurturing and likes men.
Read the profile and the journal and then, if you want to drop a line, please do. I enjoy good conversation but I need to warn you that to me,intelligence matters, We can fix our bodies with diets and cosmetics but there is little help for stupid.
If you live out of my area then be able to afford to fly often enough to make the relationship work
I am willing to relocate only if you live in a place where I would like to live. I am a New Yorker and after growing up there, most other cities do not impress me.
I am Eastern European by descent and there is nothing tiny on me, no tiny hands, no tiny bones. I could lose 40 pounds but each time I do it finds me again
I have dark blond hair to my shoulders. fair skin, and deep set green eyes. I have a degree in Photography and one in Graphic Design. Artist is who I am and how I label myself.
If you are commitment phobic then do not seek me out. I want this next ownership to last me the rest of my life.
Check my interests before you message me and if all that we have in common are BDSM interests then don't bother.
And the word is DOMINANT woman and not dominate woman. If you don't know that then you are not for me. Buy a dictionary.
I keep on being asked the question"how much of a sadist are you" ?. So, I will answer here. The aphrodisiac is power and control. The pain, to me, like humiliation or any other tool is just that, a tool. The bottom line is always about his surrender and his struggle. That is where my heat is. It is a question of "buttons" and what I need to push to get what I want. AND what I want is his surrender.
It is relationship dependent and about how well two people dance together. Having a man before me who is already on his knees, without my putting him there, is not what I need nor would ever consider.
An alpha male provides the level of surrender that I need. |
