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MzChievius
Female Dominant, 50,  Wellington, Florida US

 

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 MzChievius

 Dominant Female

 Wellington 

 Florida

 5'8"

 50

 Caucasian

 03/23/07

 

Actively Seeking:

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... his leash is ready ...


 










 


JUST HERE TO STAY IN TOUCH WITH KINKY  FRIENDS.






Quaintrelle ~ 




(noun)  A Woman who emphasizes a life of passion, expressed through personal style, leisurely pastimes, charm, and cultivation of life's pleasures.










 


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Who am I.......


 


I'm a Creative, Confident, Strong, Intelligent, Compassionate, and Loving.   Stern yet fair. Elegant, Educated, Mature Woman.  Been in the Lifestyle formally for 26+ years,  Single   LIFESTYLE  Mistress; identify as a Domina...Queen to him.  Not a Pro, never was....never will be.  This is about who I am to the fullest degree, not what I do.




 I am monogamous when in a relationship; I only share My heart with one man. 




 Not into collecting people, I've been in the lifestyle long enough to not feel the need to flex a newb Dominant muscle...or feed My ego.  SO DO NOT SEND A FRIEND REQUEST, ONLY A COUPLE FORMER SUBS WERE ALLOWED TO BE PUT ON MY PROFILE.




 AM A FIERCELY LOYAL FRIEND.   THAT BEING SAID...I will stand beside you through adversities when everyone is running the other direction, but also count on Me to call you on your bullshit too.








 I'm actively involved in My local BDSM community,    yet am very private about My life.   This is but a facet of who I am.... I am much more than this lifestyle.




I am not inherently better than you, so...I don't subscribe to better/lower than mentality.  Having said that I also believe D/s is not about democracy or equality....THERE HAS TO BE a Power Exchange dynamic in My relationship.






I want this as much as you do, perhaps more, but know THIS is not all of Me.








I am a Hedonist with a very Sadistic side.




MUSE.




FEMALE    LION   TRAINER  (AS A FRIEND POINTED OUT LATELY);


I enjoy the thrill of Victory.


 


I am all Dominant, do not switch nor bottom to anyone...repeat..have   NO DESIRE TO SWITCH.







WHAT CAPTURES MY ATTENTION...




THE MIND, IT'S A KEY TO MY HEART.








BE GENUINE, nothing is less attractive to Me than herd conformity.




BE RESPONSIBLE, we're not perfect and mess up from time to time; but OWN your words / actions.




COMMUNICATION  is also paramount in My world, as well as consistency to whom you are.




HAVE   INTEGRITY, say what you mean...mean what you say!




TAKE  CARE  IN  YOUR  APPEARANCE, everyone has different preferences in what they find appealing...but there is no excuse notto look your best no matter what you look like.




HAVE  A  SENSE  OF  HUMOUR, life is much too short to sweat the small stuff.  Points to you if you get My dry twisted (often sarcastic) sense of humour.  I particularly enjoy people with an inner fire that can think outside the box.




CREATIVITY (in all forms) I have a soft spot for ... find people that can express themselves creatively to live in the moment, being transparent vessels.  When expressing their Art, they're fearless.. being engaged in their medium leaves no space for it.




EMOTIONAL  INTELLIGENCE, are you able to balance Fluid vs. Crystal Intelligence?   I'm very perceptive of people's emotions around Me, are you?  I enjoy the company of people not afraid to exude their emotions. People that balance heart and head well.




BE SANE, although this one is pretty self explanatory I'm certain some need clarification... if you do, then I'm not for you.  Best of luck!!




READ  MY  LIST  OF  FETISHES, it will give you an inclination of the things that interest Me.  It does  not define Me by any means but it will give you somewhat understanding of My likes.




If you exhibit a mind, passive, doormat personality....we probably will not have much to talk about.  I prefer intelligent topics over just KINK TALK.  




















I  AM  NOT  INTO  FEMINIZATION  OF   MALES...


( AM QUITE CAPABLE OF UTILIZING THEIR MASCULINITY and STRENGTH) 


... I enjoy masculine males and every so often a feminine female captures My attention.








I TRULY ENJOY SPIRITED INDIVIDUALS




 


Quaintrelle ~ 


(noun)  A Woman who emphasizes a life of passion, expressed through personal style, leisurely pastimes, charm, and cultivation of life's pleasures.






☠☠☠☠☠☠☠☠☠☠☠


 




 


 


 "Unwritten"


 


I am unwritten, can't read my mind, I'm undefined


 


I'm just beginning, 
the pen's in my hand, 
ending unplanned


  


Staring at the blank page before you
Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find 


 


Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions


 


Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in


 


No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open


 


TODAY IS WHERE YOUR BOOK BEGINS
The rest is still unwritten


 Oh, oh, oh


 


I BREAK TRADITION,


SOMETIMES MY TRIES,
ARE OUTSIDE THE LINES


 


We've been conditioned to not make mistakes,
but I can't live that way


 


Staring at the blank page before you


Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find


 


Reaching for something in the distance


So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions
Feel the rain on your skin


 


No one else can feel it for you


 


Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open


 


Today is where your book begins,
the rest is still unwritten.


 


Feel the rain on your skin


No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten


 


Staring at the blank page before you


Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find


 


Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions
Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken


 


Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins


 


Feel the rain on your skin


No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips


 


Drench yourself in words unspoken


Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins


 


The rest is still unwritten


The rest is still unwritten


The rest is still unwritten


 


Oh, yeah, yeah


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 風
Swift as the wind



 林
Quiet as the forest



 火
Conquer like the fire



 山
Steady as the mountain

              ~ Sun Tzu - The Art of War






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 Quand tu veux construire un bateau,


 ne commence pas par rassembler du bois,


 couper des planches et distribuer du travail,


 mais reveille au sein des hommes


 le desir de la mer grande et large.




❝ If you want to build a ship,


 don't drum up people together to collect wood


 and don't assign them tasks and work,


 but rather teach them to long for


 the endless immensity of the sea.❞


                   ~Antoine de Saint-Exupery








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I like a good heart, passion, integrity, fortitude,


intelligence and strength in a person.   ツ


 


 


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Things to keep in mind ~


I am respectful of your kink, even if it doesn't necessarily match Mine. I prefer masculine males and feminine females (yes I can SOMETIMES be heteroflexible), not into feminization of males, infantilism, beastiality, ponies, kitties, teenage ninja turtles or similar self described ilk.

I thoroughly enjoy strong individuals.  If you are into being a doormat or the like please do look elsewhere as we will not have much in common.   


Nor will we, if all you can converse about is Kink related. Yes it's important to have common interests even in kink, but there's a vast world out there that isn't defined by kink. I walk in a world that is what some call vanilla, even that term seems dismissive of what reality is, a world rich in beauty, joy and full of adventure; yet........ THERE IS SO MUCH MORE.


 


DON'T COME TO ME ON YOUR KNEES, if I want you there.....that's where you will end up.


 


Approach Me with your backbone straight, your head held high with pride....I enjoy thoroughly the challenge of two strong minds interacting.




 


Don't come to Me telling Me how unworthy you are, I only own things of value.




 


If you treat Me like a fantasy and think I'm you're fetish delivery system... LOOK ELSEWHERE. Don't try to pressure Me by telling Me how good you are, SHOW ME why you would be good for Me. TAKE TIME TO GET TO KNOW ME,...I MAY BE KINKY BUT AM ALSO A LADY.    Be respectful and courteous.






 


GIVE ME WHAT I NEED, AND I WILL TAKE WHAT I WANT.


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


Now after all is said....






 


༺♥༻ If you happen to make it across the moat, a warm welcome awaits you! ༺♥༻


 


(which means once you understand Me - and I you - be prepared to have a friend for life. I tend to run towards a friend when everyone is running away.)


 


 


 


 


 


 






 


 


 




 




 


 


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Greatness lies not in being strong, but in the RIGHT USE OF STRENGTH!


 


 


 








 


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 I DISLIKE SMALL TALK, so if you contact Me make sure you  have something interesting to say.




 PLEASE NO ONE LINE WONDERS  EMAILS.  




I try to answer all e'mails, but if I do NOT ANSWER do take that as a "No, thanks!".








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❝ There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge.


 


       ~Napoleon Hill


 






I will not advertise Myself in a few limited paragraphs on the Net. If you want to learn more about Me... feel free to ask, I dare you.


 


 


Thank you for taking the time to read My profile... best wishes on your journey!!


 



Verus ad finem




MzChievius


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Dear Sydney University folks or other data collecting kinksters,if you find My profile to be that interesting that you need to copy it...you have good taste!


 


If you want to use anything on my profile to educate people about me and my lifestyle..then go for it. I will not put anything on my profile that could be used against me in such ways that I need to warn you against using them. After all it IS the internet, and aren't we all already exposed?  Collarme is pretty much out there already as is. I am as afraid of you using


my stuff as I am afraid of any person using or stealing my stuff. Anyone can steal stuff at any time without your consent, its nice to be asked and it shows consideration but c'mon now... it's the net!


 


So perv away at My originality, My interests, writings...


and My kinky side....




((for those KINKSTERS that copy My profile, I AM GLAD TO BE TO BE INSPIRATIONAL AND FLATTERED THAT YOU IMITATE ME. )


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His leash is ready...he knows who he is.













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