Not looking for a d/s dynamic. There is no place in my life for tpe or anything associated with it. And just in case it's not clear: people don't own other people any more. It was abolished some time ago. If you wish to have a slave fantasy role play- that's fine, but not with me.
Please do not contact me if you are "seeking" a slave, submissive or anyone subservient. I am not. Move onto the next profile if you "seek" a dominant woman, mistress or goddess. I am not. I am also not a "switch". (Switches turn lights on & off from the wall, btw...) I am not any of those. I am a sadomasochist looking for a sadomasochist spouse.
It seems there are many people who feel they don't need to actually read an entire profile. I respect a man who will email, or message me with proper grammar and punctuation. "Ur" is an ancient land. If an initial contact is rude, crude or socially unacceptable, I will respond in kind. Yes, my pic was done professionally. My cousin happens to have a studio. She's also on this site, and you are welcome to ask her about it. Contact me and I'll give you her info.
OK, the 'about me' part...
I'm currently single, having been married for 20 years to a sadomasochist. Yes, I relate to a 1950s style household, I still wear dresses to clean and vacuum, I cook every day for my enjoyment. I have been compared to June Cleaver. However, don't get the idea that I feel a man is the head of household. I feel a marriage is two spouses who are equals. All decisions are made equally.
I enjoy pain. Not erotically or as foreplay, but for the endorphins. Let me rephrase that. I am not aroused by pain. (Neither as receiver nor as the giver.) I just like the rush. I will always keep pain & pleasure separate. Pain play will be after dinner & the kids are asleep. (Ideally, I'd like one, possibly two more.)
I'm not interested in any kind of d/s relationship. I'm not into the power exchange/control dynamic. I don't care for bondage, and discipline is for the kids or a young puppy. Remove the BD and DS and you have SM. Bingo!! That's what I like.
I smoke, get used to it. Cigarettes or a cigar, yes. I have a glass of wine with dinner or a scotch with my cigar. I do smoke in the house, not outside.
I've been asked about my pain tolerance, well that's quite relative, isn't it?
My limits are set: -No loss of life or limb. Any of my body parts will remain attached without needing sutures to replace them. -No children or incest. This includes a daddydom/lilgirl, mom/son role play or any mention of relatives, or friends of said relatives-ever. -No animals. This is inclusive of bestiality or puppy/pony or any kind of pet,animal role play. -No humiliation or degradation or objectification. You can get a better reaction from asking nicely than calling me disgusting names. I include brown showers/rainbow showers in this section. Neither the giver nor receiver. -No obedience training, discipline, caging, serving, kneeling or begging. These may work for animals, not me. See section referencing no animals...
I don't play casually and I won't sleep around. I will not get involved with a married man or anyone involved with someone else.
I will find that elusive sadomasochistic spouse I'm looking for. I am patient, and won't be pressured into calling, giving my personal email address, or meeting before I'm ready.
Don't bother sending me poetry or using any of the ridiculous poetic lingo that's prevent here. That's just not my style.
