| I am Dominant by nature, refined by raising, and slave by taking.
Clarification- I've always been dominant. It's deep within me and who I am. I was taught and raised to be pleasing. I have a talent for getting people off. (so to speak) But I am Owned because even a dominant woman can be internally enslaved by a Man stronger than she.
I am Collared real time and I don't spend so much of my time online chatting anymore. I keep The Master informed as he needs to be of goings on online. I don't pester him with every detail and he doesn't annoy me with over the shoulder micro managing. Since he works 8 hours a day, he doesn't have time to check every little piece of e-mail, note, or IM that I have day to day.
I simply do not just run around here all day making this my life, getting into trouble, or having any sort of drama laid at my feet, and it's so much easier for us that way.
We live our life in real time and keep internet for networking with friends and possibly meeting others.
A bit about my Master:
He's known by the names Dragon & Drake. I call him lots of things *grin* He is 6'4" or 6'5" depending on who you ask. Dark hair, brown and green eyes (no not hazel, picture a dragon's two toned eyes- he has those- NATURALLY) long and lean and one hell of a fucking machine. Take that any way you want to :P His smile melts hearts and his voice is a delight to hear.
He is an IT technician for a redistribution warehouse based out of Maryland. He drives a black '91 RS Camaro and if I didn't put that in here, he'd be insulted.
See the picture over there <--?
That's my Dragon Collar. He hand made it. Bought each piece, and he and one of his best friends put it together. It's made of black velvet, sterling silver, and pewter.That was my surprise/birthday present and one of the many ways he's shown how much he cares. As well as, how Dragons will always surround me *grin*
I am in general a Dominant female when presented to most people.
Look, I am just Me. I do not claim to know all or be all or do all. In fact I know little in comparison to many others on this site. I do little in comparison as well. Yet some still seem to think I am some sort of entity into the world of BDSM and TPE.
Yes, I do practice both. I'm also fiercely Christian. I'm an oxi-moron and proud of it. "Mutant and proud" LOL
I'm a Mother, a Lover, a Fighter, a Helper, a Fixer, a Friend, a Big Mean Kitty Kat... I growl I hiss and I bite. Hard. I hurt, I cry, I scream, I live. I dream.
And some of that comes out rhythmically and I don't mean for it to ~laughs~
I stand for what I believe in, I walk when I should sit, I run when I should walk, I sit when I should run, then sometimes I get it all right. Not often!
D/s relationship status:
- owned and collared
- Mistress
What does that mean? I am an Owned and Collared Mistress. I own, and I am Owned. My Collar at the moment is invisible. The real one that goes around my neck is in a drawer waiting for the opportune moment. "I am Dominant by nature but His Dominance trumps all that I am"
No I am not a switch but that's the only given way to describe to "everyone" as a "standard" what I truly am. I don't "switch" from one to the other. I am His devoted one and I am also his Lady. (DragonNIN AKA Drake) I am his Mistress (Lyptia) and his teacher and guider. He is my best friend. I am no one's slave right now...because Drake hasn't Collared Me yet, again, yet. *giggles* I am Lyptia's Owner, protector and mentor. he belongs to Me, he obeys Me. I do not submit to Women. I've tried... ONCE. Just doesn't feel natural. I dominate women. But that doesn't mean I am looking to dominate YOU or that I'm pushy and mean! I'm a Bitch, yes. But don't get Me wrong, I'm likeable ;)
It's always been this way for me. From my 1st male lover as well as my 1st female lover. I simply am..who I am...
Drake and I have a daughter together. She's 3 years old (September26th2010). I breastfed her over 1 year, My personal best accomplishment to date. She does come first. I put her last here because this site is not for children. This is our censored adult life. Though don't think she takes no part. I've knelt before Him with her in my arms and I will again. We do not have not and will not forget who we are inside because we willingly became parents. We were parents inside all along anyway.
We've been together over 4 years Real Time. July this year marks 5 years for us.
We now have at least 2 others joining our Family. ( a submissive boy and girl, if you are curious ) My boy, Lyptia, has been with us for over 3 years. Our girl Mia doesn't belong to us sexually, she is taken but she IS part of our Family.
Friends are always welcome :)
We have 3 cats, inside, and 1 dog, outside. (listed eldest to youngest) Monkey, Leo, Dusty & Shade.
Our animals are our babies, too. We heart our furries!! *grin*
We do try to live each day to the fullest, for we aren't promised tomorrow.
That's my monologue. Thank you for reading.
~Well Wishes to All~
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